EP 15 Exploring the Sacred Slut & Spiritual F Boy with Angelika Alana

In today’s episode, Josefina speaks with Angelika Alana about how to regain your erotic innocence by exploring the sacred slut. Pleasure is at the core of our existence and our culture has weaponized sexual pleasure against women. Slut is a word we can either erase or embrace. Angelika points out that it is important to understand that these labels are a reflection of the person weaponizing them because people are terrified of a spiritually and sexually liberated woman! Something we hope every listener gets closer to experiencing after this episode.

Key Takeaways

• The unintegrated seductress:Rebelious sexuality, enjoying the POWER experienced through your sexual expression [10:20]
• Tantra energy exchange practices [13:28]
• Breaking away from our social selves [16:41]
• Who defined a slut? [19:10]
• Weaponizing the label [20:35]
• Setting women up to fail [23:45]
• How can we let go of the negative linguistic communication with ourselves [27:20]
• Manipulation and Shadow seductress energy [31:26]
• Sex and phychedelics [39:00]
• Spiritual F Boys [40:35]
• Sexual hidden agendas [46:30]
• Shifting how you see pleasure [52:47]

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Memorable Quotes

“A lot of times we need to leave home in order to support our spiritual, our sexual, our evolution just across the board, to fly the nest and try something different and go somewhere different where we can try on these different parts of ourselves without the collective judgement or people throwing shade or shame towards our way” [16:41] -Josefina Bashout

“In highschool, The girls that I would see being called a slut didn't even have many casual partners! What they were doing is they were daring to operate in their sexuality in the same way as a man. Which means “I am going to do what I like! When I like! How I like! And I am going to enjoy sex. And to me a slut is essentiall a woman who dares to enjoy sex, outside of the confines of whetehr it is “appropriate” or not [19:40] -Angelika Alana

“We are so threatened by a liberated woman” [28:17] -Angelika Alana

‘What is the purpose of the weapon? Because “Slut” is an arrow. So if you’re shooting the arrow…WHY? What are you defending? Do you feel threatened? What is it about them that makes you feel unsafe? Do you feel unsafe? Do you feel pissed off? Let's get to the root of it. [30:00] -Angelika Alana

“If we are not doing that work to come into our own HEALTHY sexual power and our own connection to our sexual prowess, which is innocent in nature ,as you said in the beginning of the call which is organic and natural in its essence. Then without that there is going to be that continual shaming and misuse.” [30:54] -Josefina Bashout

“Learning to work from the inside out. This recognition that; the greatest lie we’re told is that power is external, and if power is external then I have to win it at all cost. And I either have to win or I lose so every conversation, every sexual encounter becomes a win or lose game wherei am a beggar spiritual begger starving for power verses the truth that we get to awaken to, that power is internal, it’s eternal and when I remember that, sex becomes really fun and playful because there is no hidden agenda. [35:32] -Angelika Alana

“What word, if I am living it, will make any other word or intention easier or irrelevant, and the answer came through as “listen” If I am listening to life, myself, to the people around me, my body everything else is easier or irrelevant.” [51:29] -Angelika Alana

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