EP 21 Pleasurable Sex and Satisfying Relationships in the Modern World with Aimee Batuski

Today I speak with Aimee Batuski, founder of “Desire on Fire”. She helps you identify your intimacy style so that you can reignite the spark of desire in your life. The pleasure path is not always easy, sometimes, it can be downright humiliating. By surrendering to your deepest wants, you will not just improve your sex life but you will become connected to your higher self. Desire is your life force, and without it our goals, relationships and our pursuits become burdens instead of gratifying experiences. Aimee will teach you how to speak up and deepen the love you have for yourself so that you can be open to receiving the love you deserve and truly devote yourself to the path of pleasure.

Key Takeaways:

[6:10] Sex positive and Self consious: Internalizing cultural messages

[8:30] The Femenine path

[14:00] Forging your own path without fear of judgment

[17:20] Creating for yourself in spite of your lower self voices

[18:30] Achievement at the detriment of deeper desires

[20:10] 5 Intimacy styles: Cool Girl, Party Girl, Independent Woman, The Giver and The Receiving Queen

[23:00] Doing it all alone leads leaves women lacking vulnerability and dissociating from the body

[25:00] Allowing yourself to ask for help: Don’t wait till your body forces you to surrender

[28:10] Life after honeymoon bliss: Why does the spark fade?

[30:15]The Erotic Blueprints: Resting, Curiosity, Adventurous and Transformational

[32:30] The Pleasure path is not pleasurable all the time

[33:30] Admitting what you want can feel Humiliating

[36:00] Being devoted to the path of desire

[40:20] Voicing your desires regardless if you receive a “No”

[42:00] The spark goes out when we lose our connection to desire

[48:40] Practicing with Men and Processing with Women

[50:30] Self penetrating: getting to the root of your desire and bringing it to your partner

[58:00] Moving from the head to the full body experience

Resources:

http://www.desireonfire.com

http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski

https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

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Memorable Quotes:

“If we believe these lower self voices then our passion, our fire, our drive, our life force can’t come alive to create magic, that then serves the entire world.” [17:20] -Josefina Bashout

“I see a lot of women who are very high achieving and it’s based on their conditioning or based on what they think they're supposed to achieve but they are capable of that! They have the capacity and the capability to reach the goals or get things done or fulfill their mission or their dream or whatever and sometimes it’s at the detriment of these other more tender desires.” [19:00] -Aimee Batuski

“When we are trying to hold it all together and do it all ourselves, of course we’re not in our highest pleasure!” [24:20] -Aimee Batuski

“They are so goal oriented that their sex, their pleasure and their body and their intimacy isn’t even on the radar to be prioritized.” [31:11] -Aimee Batuski

“The pleasure path is filled with portals…It is a devotional path. Just like how you would make love and be in devotion, the path requires us to be in that devotion.” [35:35] -Josefina Bashout

“Everytime I have a vulnerable desire, which is often, it feels humiliating to admit, it really does. It feels like I’m throwing myself off a cliff like naked in front of a million people. It’s so scary.” [38:22] -Aimee Batuski