Attending to the Stories Behind Trauma Cycles in Marriage w/Dan & Becky Allender, 8-9 Pairing

Attending to the Stories Behind Trauma Cycles in Marriage w/Dan & Becky Allender, 8-9 Pairing

Giving space for suffering and holding space for one another, as well as working through life and generational trauma in marriage are essential practices for long-term couples. Almost everyone has been through something hard or incapacitating by the time they are married for any number of years. Today Christa is joined by the esteemed Dr. Dan Allender and Becky Allender, co-founders of The Seattle School/The Allender Center, who in their 8-9 pairing have helped hundreds of thousands of people to overcome issues of trauma of all kinds. They share tips in general and reveal some of their own restorative narratives in their marriage, as well as how to suffer alongside each other and address one's own trauma triggers, which are especially helpful when contempt arises. Dan has authored Healing the Wounded Heart, The Cry of the Soul, and more and Becky has authored Hidden in Plain Sight: One Woman's Search for Identity, Intimacy, and Calling. Together they also offer marriage retreat intensives, courses, and more! Watch on YouTube here! The Allender Center specializes in training pastors, therapists, group leaders, lay counselors, and community and business leaders to understand their own stories to more deeply enter the lives of those they are called to love and serve. We come alongside to equip and develop skills for wading into the difficult waters of heartache, trauma, and abuse. Find their resources, books, and marriage retreat info here. https://theallendercenter.org/ Find Dan's podcast here! Use the code ENNEAGRAM15 to get 15% off of one of their marriage video courses here! To work through your relationship needs, make sure to visit www.EnneagramandMarriage.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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An E + M Holiday Mini: Analyzing Our Favorite Family Christmas Movies w/Hannah Hardin, Type 4

An E + M Holiday Mini: Analyzing Our Favorite Family Christmas Movies w/Hannah Hardin, Type 4

In this fun Christmas movie episode, we take a break with our favorite holiday drink to allow cinematic mastery to woo us into a healthier intimate dance of relationship together in middle marriage. H...

29 Marras 202324min

Why Forgiveness is Essential  in Relationship + A Forgiveness Practice for You

Why Forgiveness is Essential in Relationship + A Forgiveness Practice for You

If you're deeply hurt but you keep moving, but you’re locked up with resentment, you and your spouse and family can feel it on an internal level. It robs you and threatens your felt sense of safety an...

27 Marras 202318min

An E + M Holiday Special: Analyzing Little Women Characters Type by Type

An E + M Holiday Special: Analyzing Little Women Characters Type by Type

Join us for laughs and love as we walk and talk together through the beautiful Little Women story and find the beautiful virtues in this epic holiday tale mini-episode. If you love this book or movie,...

22 Marras 202324min

I Didn't Sign Up For This: Conflict & Communication with Dr. Tracy Dagleish, Enneagram 1

I Didn't Sign Up For This: Conflict & Communication with Dr. Tracy Dagleish, Enneagram 1

It's never easy to face squarely that the person we signed up to marry has changed - or worse, that we've changed and no longer feel the same level of desire together. In these critical middle seasons...

20 Marras 202339min

An E + M Mini: Opening Up Your Relationship Window of Tolerance

An E + M Mini: Opening Up Your Relationship Window of Tolerance

Once we pull back the curtain under our conflicts and see what's hindering us, we can work on our issues with one another - that is if we're emotionally regulated. In this quick episode, Christa will ...

15 Marras 202315min

Healing Soul Wounds in Marriage with Drs. Bill and Kristi Gaultierre, Types 1 & 2

Healing Soul Wounds in Marriage with Drs. Bill and Kristi Gaultierre, Types 1 & 2

Today we’re joined on the pod by Drs. Bill and Kristin Gaultierre, psychologists and spiritual directors who help us to find one another's gifts amidst the rubble of soul wounds as we learn to offer C...

12 Marras 202352min

An E + M Mini:  Facing Difficult Conversations Individually & Together

An E + M Mini: Facing Difficult Conversations Individually & Together

85% of adults will have experienced a traumatic event by the time they’re 18, which means that virtually all married individuals need good ways to cope with trauma. In today’s brief episode, Christa w...

8 Marras 202319min

How to Heal Generational Trauma  in Your Family w/Courtney J. Burg, 1w9

How to Heal Generational Trauma in Your Family w/Courtney J. Burg, 1w9

The last thing you want are holiday arguments between you or your extended family to carry forward to future generations and this week's shows are aimed at helping you to process, love, and set the bo...

6 Marras 202334min

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