Maybe you aren’t submissive, what now?
Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. That’s a great question! It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. But, do you have to be submissive to call us? The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman.Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we’re talking about.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don’t want to be the sub for the conversation after the play.This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn’t need to be all serious all the time - it’s fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyVox Erotic
31 Maalis 26min
Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress
Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc. Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge.Some of the topics include:Submission as a way to let go of life’s responsibilitiesHow working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment.Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proudGreater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend).Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life.Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform. This is especially true for feminization and sissy training.This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging.Goddess Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
24 Maalis 32min
Are you an alpha man who yearns to be a feminized sissy?
Are you an alpha male for much of your life - in charge at work and/or home - but you have a secret you can’t share with any of THOSE people? Are you, perhaps, sexually submissive and feminization helps with that submissive feeling?Are you a sissy, crossdresser or even wondering if you might be trans?These questions inspired today’s episode we talk about power dynamics, power exchange and feminization by a Dominant Woman. Topics include:** What is an Alpha man?** How common is it for an Alpha man to want to be feminized? ** What percentage of sissies that call for Femdom phone sex have an Alpha type career or job?** Does the person who is often in control always want to be in charge?** Are the Femdom hosts always in Domme or Mistress mode?** What do we mean by someone who is sexually submissive?** What does a Femdom look for in a sissy or submissive?** What about the use of erotic humiliation when it is sweet teasing or all the way to degrading emasculation?Both ladies emphasize that not everyone into feminization is submissive. This is especially true for those who are crossdressers or who identify as transwomen. We also talk about some of the relationships we have with our subs and girly gurls.How does having a close relationship with an online Mistress help with emotions like shame and loneliness?Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
17 Maalis 29min
He called for cuckold advice. Guess what happened?
This episode is inspired by a man who called Ms Erika for cuckold advice. He wanted to know how to talk to his girlfriend about his desire to explore being a cuckold. In this episode you’ll hear about his specific situation, what Mistress Erika told him to do and then you’ll find out what happened!Topics include:Myths about cuckolds: this man doesn’t have a small penis, isn’t turned on by humiliation, and they already have a great sex life.How a phone sex Femdom finds out the difference between fantasy conversation and a request for real life advice.Some differences between cuckolding, swinging and an open relationship.Exhibitionist / voyeur fans in the sex sceneSome of the things a woman worries about before becoming a hot wife or cuckoldressCommunication tips for alternate lifestyles like cuckolding, BDSM, kink or actually any successful relationship, even the vanilla ones.How to bring up your cuckold desires. What to do when you don’t hear an immediate, clear answer to your cuckolding request.Some of the practical advice centers around talking about STD testing, personal safety with new partners, etc.Finally, what happened with this couple? Find out in this episode.Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
10 Maalis 35min
Mistress advice: How to prepare for your distance domination session
Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works.What happens when you call LDW Group?What are some of the different types of long distance BDSM relationships?How does kink play work when Mistress and pet aren’t in the same physical play space?Are you shy?Are you nervous?This podcast episode will help you understand a bit about what to expect, how to ask for what you want, and then how to physically get ready for your session.As usual, the conversation goes on safari with stories, anecdotes and more. Enjoy this peek behind the curtain of the business of distance domination and femdom phone sex.OH and you don’t have to be a submissive to call! As you can tell from this podcast, we love to have intelligent conversations with smart, sexy people (ie YOU!)Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
3 Maalis 31min
Sexy Sissy programming: bathtime feminization
The ladies try something a little different. Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session.This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood.Topics include:** Shower versus bath** Sex in the shower** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Erika** Bubbles or bath bombs, or bath oilsSuggestions for relaxing into the sensuality of the experience:** How to create the perfect environment** How to reinforce the benefits of this sensory experience** Why we say, wear a bikini or panties in the bathThe ladies do brief guided meditation with feminization affirmations.There is also a trance type sissy programming audio.We urge you to take the time to use the rituals and sensuality of taking a bath to honor and reinforce your feminine feelings. We want you to take your feminization to the next level with these ideas, tips, and suggestions.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
24 Helmi 29min
Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?
A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’ We’ve got you!In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot. We highlight several common areas of concern: Anal play / prostate playCock suckingWearing pantiesBeing a submissive manWhat is normal? Who gets to decide what types of erotic pleasure are outside the norm?Who can you talk with about your concerns?How to find someone who can guide you through these desires.You’ll also hear that you aren’t alone in your worry about being weird or whatever. The ladies share personal stories about our own experiences. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
17 Helmi 29min
Why you need prostate play.
A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.The episode includes:A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular’ orgasm?What is a sissygasm and what does that feel like?If someone is a chastity pet, then the Mistress might keep that submissive caged and do prostate milking. These Femdoms talk about prostate health and using prostate milking for someone who is in long term chastity say as part of sissy training and feminization.Why would someone be nervous about or reluctant to try prostate play? The ladies talk about some common concerns. The two most common worries about anal sex are: will it hurt and will it be ‘messy.’ You’ll hear recommendations for favorite sex toys for anal play, including remote controlled sex toys.Personal stories, jokes and laughter are always part of the podcast – so we’re glad to have you here with us!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyNOTE: if you navigate to our blogs but land on TalkToMe123 you are not lost. If you want to know more how to access our blogs, just get in touch.Here's how:Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.com
10 Helmi 30min
