Do you need BDSM aftercare?
The Weekly Hot Spot19 Kesä 2023

Do you need BDSM aftercare?

Think of BDSM as a 3 act play: BDSM negotiations, the kinky scene, and then, aftercare for the submissive and the Dominant.

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the importance of aftercare in BDSM in general and, specifically for people who call Femdom phone sex for Distance Domination.

Ms Erika gives a general description of BDSM aftercare: taking time after the play or scene to recover, get centered and tend to the physical and emotional needs of the Domme and the sub.

First, they get sidetracked talking about men who like to hang up before or right after they cum. Ms Olivia points out that behavior like this is why many people go to a sex worker - to behave in ways that aren’t socially acceptable in a personal relationship.

Getting back on topic the ladies talk about:
The vulnerability of being a submissive
How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress
Sub drop
Domme drop
And, after care tips that include taking care of physical and emotional needs. These Femdoms give specific suggestions and how to apply this to Distance Domination sessions.

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