BDSM: pain play and how to not leave marks

Remember Mistress Erika talking about her ignore slave? Did you wonder who pays for a phone call just to be ignored? What’s going on and, more importantly, WHY?Ignore slave doesn’t even have a name and Ms Olivia calls it, “it.”This podcast is recorded while the ladies ignore it, who called in and is paying for a 2 Mistress call. Ignore slave sent Ms Erika an email listing the reasons why it likes ignore calls - the ladies read the reasons and discuss.So — what’s the deal about sexual humiliation? Who is a sexual machochist?Why is erotic humiliation called pain for the brain? What is human furniture? Why does someone like being teased for having a small penis? Why are these types of submissives so much fun for a Femdom to torment? Learn how each Mistress incorporates neglect play into kink scenes that also include things like bondage, covering eyes and ears, or other types of sensory deprivation like a vac bed. You’ll hear why is trust so important with BDSM partners and some details of how to create a consensual slave contract.Many parts of BDSM are about the paradox of pain being pleasure.Listen to each experienced Mistress describe why the mental anguish of sexual humiliation hurts so good.

11 Huhti 202253min

Today’s episode is all about erotic audios. There are several different sites to hear or get erotic audios. The ladies talks about pre-made erotic scenes and assignments. These out of the box audios are pre-made and ready for purchase.Custom erotic audios are also available and involve more interaction with your Mistress to make sure both of you are on the same page with the details of your sexual fantasy. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share behind the scenes details of what goes into creating a custom audio.Ms Ruby joins the ladies to talk about bringing her audio mixing skills as a musician to the erotic audio scene. Ruby says erotic audios are works of art and she loves creating soundscapes full of layered sounds.Hear some of the most unusual requests for custom audios - including furries, Giantess squishing miniature vampire girls and hiccups.

4 Huhti 202246min

Do you know who first coined the term cock control?Headmistress Ms Ally, creator of the LDW Group network of femdom phone sex, actually has a copyright on the term! Whatttttt?????You find out fun facts like this on today’s episode.What makes us cock control experts? How do you know if you want to be a submissive or simply want a woman in charge to be sexually assertive. Ms Erika says this might be Femdom lite and both ladies agree it’s fucking FUN!The ladies share their favorite stroking ideas, masturbation games and more.This is chock full of news you can use including specific edging tips for you to try during or after the podcast.

28 Maalis 202235min

Sissy trance audios and anything to boost feminization are very popular right now. Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia created a 30 Day Calendar for the sissy girls and a 30 Day Calendar for general feminization. Today, they talk about the trance audios that go along with the feminization training programs.You’ll hear the difference between feminization and sissification, including how to use trance audios to increase submissive feelings as any femme girl learns to fully obey Mistress.Ms Erika talks about how a trance audio works on your subconscious to fully transform your mindset to embrace feminine feelings, mannerisms and actions.Mistress Olivia admits she has a learning curve with audio tech as both ladies share the behind the scenes stuff about how they make sissy trance and feminization audios.

21 Maalis 202233min

We love all of our new listeners! We’re glad you found our kinky podcast and are sending us questions.Mistress Olivia points out there are a lot of submissive men who want to know how they can inspire their wives and girlfriends to be more Dominant.Ms Erika gives specific suggestions about how to introduce kink into your sex life including ways to gently (and effectively) talk with your partner about your true sexual desires. You’ll hear real questions and answers on topics like tease and denial, chastity, feminization and sissification and more.It’s a fun sometimes rambling conversation that covers everything from speculation about dinosaur sex to compassion for a new listener who says she is a lost sissy.

14 Maalis 202244min

New Year and new ideas for our kink podcast.We have so many things to talk about - including feminization and sissy tips for Valentine’s Day, best stroking techniques for Masturbation May and, of course, anal play for Aptil 15th tax day (because if you’re going to be fucked in the ass, it might as well be fun).Ms Erika offers to find out how to do the technical things to incorporate some live podcasts where we answer your questions live.We might even decide to pop Ms Erika’s girl on girl cherry LIVE on a podcast.

24 Tammi 202240min

What’s on your sexual bucket list? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find a list of sexual bucket list ideas and talk about ones they’ve done and what they’d like to do next. Ms Olivia goes on an excursion into the Superman origin story. Ms Erika reveals a fear and Ms Olivia has an idea of how to overcome that during sex on a cruise ship. All this leads to a conversation about some possible changes to The Weekly Hot Spot including ideas about doing some episodes live. Do you want to be able to have a way to send messages to each Mistress while we are recording? Now is your chance to tell us what you think.

17 Tammi 202239min

People who aren’t into BDsm might cringe at the sight of spanking, whipping, caning and other rough play but impact play is a huge part of kink culture.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share what they love about this classic activity.Why does a Femdom like inflicting pain? Why would a submissive crave physical suffering?The ladies talk about impact play and why punishment is often called funishment.

10 Tammi 202259min