The Weekly Hot Spot / The Psychology of Alternative Relationships and Power Dynamics11 Marras 2024

So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?

Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean?

There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc.

Topics in this podcast episode include:
The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships.
A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive.
The role of chastity, orgasm denial and/or suffering for your Mistress.
Does a service submissive automatically mean sexual service?

What are some non-sexual things that a service sub provides?

Since your podcast hosts do Distance Domination, the role of a service sub is a little different but the fundamentals are the same as an in person play partner.

What can someone do for their Goddess?
The ladies have some specific suggestions:
Visit our blogs and stay on the blog for at least 3 minutes, click on several pages, staying on each page for several minutes.
Write comments on our blogs
Follow us on social media; comment on and share our posts.

What does the sub get out of serving a Mistress?
Hear what other submissives say about being a service sub.

Have you ever wanted to be a real service sub?
What does that phrase mean to you?

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

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