362: A Helpful Guide to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others by Joshua Becker of Becoming Minimalist

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3398: Joel from 5AMJoel.com shares how facing fears - like surfing in the dark with imagined "sharks" around can mirror the anxiety of stepping into new situations, from big life changes to intimidating jobs. By confronting fear and pushing forward, we often find support, beauty, and accomplishment in unexpected places. His advice? Embrace discomfort, tackle challenges one small step at a time, and recognize that most “sharks” are just harmless illusions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://5amjoel.com/sharks/ & https://5amjoel.com/how-do-you-eat-an-elephant/ Quotes to ponder: "The universe is not against you. Most ‘sharks’ are just dolphins and seals." "Run towards the stuff that scares the shit out of you. Recognize your fear, respect it, then move forward anyway." "How do you eat an elephant? 1 bite at a time." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3397: Marc Chernoff outlines key habits that happy people avoid, focusing on actions that foster inner peace and authentic joy. From letting go of comparison and resentment to embracing self-worth and honesty, Chernoff shows how purposeful habits can create a more fulfilled, present life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2013/07/16/6-things-happy-people-never-do/ Quotes to ponder: "Minding your own business allows you to walk your own path without the distraction of others’ highlight reels." "As soon as you stop making everyone and everything else responsible for your happiness, the happier you’ll be." "Forgiveness allows you to focus on the future without combating the past." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Marras 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3396: Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis offers compassionate guidance for anyone struggling with the holiday season, encouraging mindfulness, reframing language, and finding supportive ways to navigate difficult emotions. Her practical advice helps foster a sense of control, purpose, and even enjoyment amidst holiday stressors, reminding readers that they’re not alone in their struggles. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drallisonanswers.com/self-compassion/dreading-the-holidays/ Quotes to ponder: "Acknowledging how you feel this holiday season will help you better understand what you need." "This rewording acknowledges what is, but it also leaves room for something different." "Everyone else isn’t merry. And you are not alone." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

19 Marras 202412min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3395: Jen Smith explores how to adapt Marie Kondo's decluttering philosophy to fit personal needs and modern lifestyle constraints, allowing for a more flexible, less rigid approach. By modifying the KonMari method, Smith provides practical tips for organizing without pressure to discard items that hold unique value or serve functional purposes. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.modernfrugality.com/modify-the-konmari-method/ Quotes to ponder: "Your home should be a reflection of who you are not who someone else says you should be." "Decluttering doesn't mean you have to let go of everything; it’s about making space for the things that genuinely add to your life." "The goal is to live in a way that feels natural and supportive to you, not to follow someone else’s rules." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Marras 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3394: In this insightful piece, Cara Harvey shares simple, powerful strategies to calm the mind, reduce mental clutter, and lower stress by embracing intentional routines. Harvey’s steps encourage clear priorities, focused thinking, and practical tools for a more balanced and stress-free life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/declutter-your-mind-decrease-stress-in-3-easy-steps/ Quotes to ponder: "Clutter in your mind can be just as overwhelming as physical clutter." "Prioritizing and setting boundaries are essential to keep your mind focused on what truly matters." "When you clear out mental clutter, you make room for thoughts that inspire and empower you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3393: Engaging in regular physical exercise is one of the most effective ways to boost brain function, thanks to increased blood flow, neurogenesis, and the release of "feel-good" chemicals like endorphins. Dr. Jenny Brockis emphasizes that even just 20 minutes of daily activity can enhance memory, elevate mood, and sharpen cognitive abilities. Her practical advice makes fitting exercise into a daily routine easier and highlights how it directly nurtures brain health. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.drjennybrockis.com/2013/9/9/for-a-better-functioning-brain-get-moving/ Quotes to ponder: "Exercise releases higher amounts of brain-derived neurotrophic factor, essential for memory and neurogenesis." "Being in a positive mood is associated with higher performance setting you up to ensure the rest of your day goes well." "New habits require new neural circuitry to be created, and it is the repetition that embeds the habit." Episode references: Spark: The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain by John Ratey: https://www.amazon.com/Spark-Revolutionary-Science-Exercise-Brain/dp/0316113514 Simon Sinek's TED Talk on "Start with Why": https://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3392: Steve Pavlina challenges the traditional approach to prioritizing tasks by introducing "posteriorities" the concept of deliberately choosing what not to do. By identifying low-value tasks to eliminate, he argues that we can sharpen focus on what truly matters, ultimately freeing time and energy for higher-impact actions that align with our long-term goals. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/11/setting-posteriorities/ Quotes to ponder: "Sometimes what you choose not to do is more important than what you choose to do." "Setting posteriorities means saying no to low-value tasks to create space for what truly matters." "When you eliminate distractions and low-impact actions, your priorities become naturally clearer." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3391: Bryan Shelton explores how applying behavioral science can accelerate skill development, showing how to set and achieve goals using structured, deliberate practice. Through steps like pinpointing specific behaviors and reinforcing improvements, he demonstrates how teams can both "go fast" and "go far" by building momentum together, making learning a more efficient and collaborative experience. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.aubreydaniels.com/blog/developing-skills-quickly-with-the-science-of-behavior Quotes to ponder: "Mountain biking is made up of several complex behavior chains. As a biker develops their skills in these areas, they have the ability to pick up and maintain speed." "Sessioning is a fancy word for deliberate practice building the skills necessary to complete our goal." "Maybe we need to ditch the proverb, 'If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together,' and replace it with something that recognizes that fast and far are achievable with deliberate practice." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

15 Marras 20249min