How to Stop Yourself Over-investing in Early Dating

I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart bro...

27 Loka 20238min

“How can I stop addictive thoughts about someone who’s wrong for me?” When we really like someone but know there are signs of problems, we’ll often overvalue them for their charisma and charm . . . an...

23 Loka 202315min

It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself. When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likable person. It becomes a self-perp...

20 Loka 20237min

It’s easy to ignore red flags when we’re falling for someone. But our heart pays the price. When you’re really attracted to someone, you can talk yourself out of acting on your concerns. You may purs...

16 Loka 202321min

We often tell people they should be open in relationships. But what does it mean to be "open"? And can vulnerability become over-sharing, or is it always healthy? In this episode clip, Matt and Steve ...

13 Loka 202312min

Do you find yourself always chasing the same type of people in dating? It can be incredibly frustrating when you get caught in familiar toxic patterns. You want to throw your hands up and say, “How d...

9 Loka 202313min

It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us as we talk about the kind of romance that matters in relationships and h...

6 Loka 20239min

Do you still feel under pressure to find love? Are people making you fearful that it's too late and you're not young enough to attract the partner you deserve? In this conversation, Matt talks to the ...

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