Ep. 331 - Why You’re Not Manifesting, The Trust Muscle, & The Energetics of Winter

We know what it’s like to feel blocked, stuck, desperate, or like nothing is happening. It’s really frustrating, especially if you’ve been doing this work for a while. But there is a MAJOR reason for this time. And that’s why we do this work as a community, to support each other and bring clarity to each other’s process. Because sometimes waiting and striving for that big manifestation eclipses all the magic you’ve been calling in left and right. Sometimes we get so fixated on what we DON’T have, that we forget to witness and feel gratitude for the manifestations that have actually come through. It’s like any other growth path–it’s slow and incremental, and yet, astonishing when we look back and realize how far we’ve come. So in this episode, we invite you to witness more of the magic you’ve already called in, to slow down and appreciate how far you’ve come, and to receive some expansion in trust. Your manifestations ARE coming. Lacy and Jessica explore what it means to be in alignment with trust, surrender, and authenticity in manifestation. They share personal stories, like Jessica's home manifestation and Lacy’s Victorian dream, to illuminate how divine timing and releasing control create space for greater alignment and magic. From nurturing a trust muscle to honoring the internal shifts happening during this season, take this episode as your encouragement to embrace the cocooning phase of winter to cultivate rest, integration, and true authenticity.

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In This Episode We Talk About:

• The importance of the trust muscle in manifestation and the role of surrender.
• How releasing control allows for manifestations that better meet your authentic needs.
• Lacy and Jessica’s personal examples of big manifestations requiring divine timing and expanded awareness.
• Recognizing how smaller manifestations build trust in the process.
• The difference between attaching to specifics and staying open to expansive possibilities.
• Honoring internal growth as a significant manifestation outcome.
• The role of expanders in breaking limiting beliefs about what is possible.
• Understanding dog paddling energy and how it blocks your desires.
• Building faith in the unseen, trusting that everything is unfolding perfectly.
• The value of curiosity in the manifestation process.
• Winter as a time for cocooning, letting go, and preparing for rebirth

THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

• The importance of strengthening the trust muscle, embracing divine timing, and celebrating smaller manifestations as stepping stones to bigger desires. (00:09:15)
• How to let go of control and perfectionist and reclaim the fun in manifestations (00:21:20)
• The role of expanders, pings, and letting go of attachment to outcomes. (00:57:10)

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

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