174: Don’t Suppress Urges, Here’s How You Can Use Them to Overcome Pornography Use

174: Don’t Suppress Urges, Here’s How You Can Use Them to Overcome Pornography Use

Have you ever felt trapped by urges that seem impossible to control?

Many people struggling with pornography feel like these moments are scary and overwhelming.

Most advice tells you to fight these urges by staying busy or calling a friend. But that doesn't really solve the problem.

What if, instead of fighting urges, you could understand them? What if these tough moments could actually help you heal and grow?

In today's episode, I'll share a different way to handle these challenges. We'll talk about how understanding your urges can help you find real freedom.

This isn't just helpful for you—it's also important for your relationships. Partners will learn how to see real progress and healing.

For therapy with Sam:

I will work with you for 12 weeks to help you eliminate pornography use and the root cause that started it.

If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

Click here for info to work with me directly.

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Get ready to learn a new approach that can change everything

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149: A New Twist On Identify and Resolving Underlying Issues That Lead to Pornography Use

149: A New Twist On Identify and Resolving Underlying Issues That Lead to Pornography Use

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148: 5 Signs That the Trust in Your Marriage is Seriously Damaged

148: 5 Signs That the Trust in Your Marriage is Seriously Damaged

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147: Tools to Help Your Relationship Progress If She Brings Up Her Pain

147: Tools to Help Your Relationship Progress If She Brings Up Her Pain

Announcement!!! Trust is a critical part of rebuilding your relationship after pornography use has damaged it. So, I decided to do a special trust building workshop, where for 90 minutes I’ll be doing...

6 Kesä 202426min

146: Success Story: Braden Shares the 5 Specific Things That Changed His Life and Helped Him Quit Pornography

146: Success Story: Braden Shares the 5 Specific Things That Changed His Life and Helped Him Quit Pornography

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145: When It’s Hard to Work On Your Marriage and Forgiveness Seems Impossible to Achieve

145: When It’s Hard to Work On Your Marriage and Forgiveness Seems Impossible to Achieve

Pornography use damages a relationship in deep and significant ways. Trust is broken and her wall goes up. The idea of forgiveness can feel impossible to offer, and a husband feels despair wondering i...

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144: 5 Signs She’s Feeling Betrayal Trauma (And How You Can Address It)

144: 5 Signs She’s Feeling Betrayal Trauma (And How You Can Address It)

When a woman discovers her husband's pornography use, her whole world gets turn upside down.  Oftentimes she now thinks that everything was a lie. Their whole relationship was fake. They don't even kn...

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143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day

143: How to Avoid Pornography If Your Spouse Leaves Town or For The Day

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