133 - Invisible Contracts

133 - Invisible Contracts

How many of us learnt that we could 'make ourselves safe' by offering certain behaviours - compliance, being a good listener, being 'interesting'? In this episode I'm exploring what we may have learnt we could expect back, if we could just find the offering to provide - the contracts we have entered into with our behaviours. "If I'm this, then you will be that" the rule goes. Except when the other party can't see and didn't agree to the contract we have signed up for...

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163 - Dancing on Social Convention

163 - Dancing on Social Convention

So I've just been to a wedding - and broke a few of my own self-imposed rules. Here I talk about the moment of choice - to sit back and wait and watch before acting, the context necessary for the risk...

3 Loka 202526min

162 - Feelings as Clues

162 - Feelings as Clues

In this episode, I observe the difficulty so many TCKs have with acknowledging their feelings - especially feelings of discomfort. Why is this, and what do these feelings have to contribute to our sto...

26 Syys 202521min

161 - Birthdays, Celebrations and Getting it Right...

161 - Birthdays, Celebrations and Getting it Right...

So, I found this episode I recorded way back in July! Excited to finally bring it to you - meandering though how TCKs might navigate birthdays and other celebrations when belonging is so often tied in...

19 Syys 202517min

160 - Sabotage... or Resistance?

160 - Sabotage... or Resistance?

Back after a long summer gap - but reflecting on the processing there and on a theme showing up a lot this week - self-sabotage! This is an exploration of what are the stories we might be in when we w...

12 Syys 202532min

159 - I finished the to-do list... and it feels weird

159 - I finished the to-do list... and it feels weird

Reflections on how things actually going to plan - life doing what we wanted - can actually trigger anxiety in TCKs! Even finishing my to-do list... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more in...

11 Heinä 202523min

158 - TCK Creatives

158 - TCK Creatives

Introducing a new online group for TCK creatives! If you are a TCK who loves working creatively, join us via Facebook (just search 'Third Culture Kid Creatives') and discover how many TCKs are explori...

4 Heinä 202517min

157 - Grief Sticks

157 - Grief Sticks

Inspired by a conversation with another TCK, I've decided to make tangible representations of all those losses that have felt so hard to name - especially the loss of things that we never had - and in...

27 Kesä 202511min

156 - The Focus on Arrival

156 - The Focus on Arrival

What happens with perfectionism collides with a short internal timeline? This episode I'm exploring the way in which our TCK experiences can shorten our sense of timeline, keeping our focus on achievi...

20 Kesä 202517min

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