130. Unshaming with David Bedrick

130. Unshaming with David Bedrick

David Bedrick is the founder of the Santa Fe Institute for Shame-Based Studies, where he teaches therapists, coaches, and healers from around the world how to work with people in a new way. Healing from a pornography habit can be an extremely challenging and disturbing experience, and David's perspective is that it shouldn't be simply accepted. There are often hidden gifts in the shame that may arise, and we're exploring this on this episode.


David shares his own unshaming story and his unique approach to unshaming. He offers insights into why shaming ourselves never leads to change, the difference between guilt and shame, and what the practice of unshaming can look like in reality.



Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.sarabrewer.com/blog/unshaming-david-bedrick

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255. Neutralize Your Porn Habit and the Emotions Around Quitting

255. Neutralize Your Porn Habit and the Emotions Around Quitting

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254. Learning to Trust Your Own Spiritual Authority

254. Learning to Trust Your Own Spiritual Authority

When sexuality and religion overlap, it is easy to get stuck looking for the “right” answer from your church or leaders. If you have ever found yourself searching for approval about masturbation, sexu...

1 Joulu 202527min

253. Playing a New “What If” Game with Kat

253. Playing a New “What If” Game with Kat

Do you get stuck in the cycle of negative “what-ifs” that hold you back from taking action? Many of us play the “what if” game, imagining worst-case scenarios that paralyze us from moving forward. Whe...

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252. How to Stop Tying Your Worthiness to Productivity

252. How to Stop Tying Your Worthiness to Productivity

So many of us grow up believing our worth is measured by how much we get done, and those messages follow us into adulthood. When you live in a culture that praises achievement, it becomes almost autom...

17 Marras 202520min

251. Talking About Sex with Your Partner with Jessica

251. Talking About Sex with Your Partner with Jessica

Talking about sex in a relationship can feel intimidating, especially when pornography use adds another layer of complexity. The vulnerability required to share desires, boundaries, and preferences of...

10 Marras 202527min

250. The Compound Effect: Small Steps That Create Lasting Change

250. The Compound Effect: Small Steps That Create Lasting Change

Have you ever felt like you have to quit pornography perfectly or not at all? Many people fall into the trap of believing it’s all or nothing—total success or complete failure. This mindset creates pr...

3 Marras 202519min

249. Understanding and Healing the Two Sides of Shame with Kat

249. Understanding and Healing the Two Sides of Shame with Kat

Shame is one of the biggest barriers to change, but what if understanding where it comes from could help you finally release it? We often see shame as something that lives only inside of us, but it ac...

27 Loka 202520min

248. 4 Practical Steps to Develop Emotional Agility with Hunter

248. 4 Practical Steps to Develop Emotional Agility with Hunter

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions, like anger, anxiety, or sadness? We all experience powerful emotions, but the difference between getting stuck and moving forward often comes down to o...

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