186. Working Backwards

186. Working Backwards

The working backwards process is all about figuring out what you’re buffering from. The value lies in going further back than you might typically be used to, to get to the root of why you self-sabotaged. By uncovering the root cause of your self-sabotage, you unlock the keys to building lasting change.


I walk you through the keys to using the working backwards process effectively, and share an example from my own life of how I use this technique to understand myself better and replace self-judgment with self-compassion.



Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.centerforovercomingpornography.com/blog/working-backwards

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8. Fact vs Story

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7. Stop Fighting and Start Surrendering

7. Stop Fighting and Start Surrendering

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6. All or Nothing Thinking

6. All or Nothing Thinking

In today's episode we talk about all or nothing mindset. This is one of the most common things I see with my clients.All or nothing mindset looks like, “I already messed up today, so I am not going to...

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5. Shame Spiral

5. Shame Spiral

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4. Stop Fearing Urges

4. Stop Fearing Urges

In todays episode we talk about urges. Urges is another word for the feeling of desire. Many of you are afraid of urges because you think that if you feel an urge, you will look at pornography.I want ...

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3. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Identity

3. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Identity

In today's episode we talk about the identity you have taken on as a pornography viewer. Changing this identity is required for quitting pornography for good. In this episode we talk about how to chan...

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2. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Over-desire

2. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Over-desire

It today's episode we talk about over-desire. Over-desire is the reason that your urges feel automatic. Over-desire can be un-trained and un-learned. We talk about how in the show.You'll also learn my...

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1. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Escape

1. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Escape

Join me in today's episode as we talk about one main thing that is keeping you in a pornography habit, and that is your need to escape negative emotion."Pornography has nothing to do with sexual appet...

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