Playing With Fire16 Marras 2024

178 The One to Share with Your Concerned Family Members

Are you struggling to talk to your friends and family about your non-monogamous identity? Whether you’re unsure how to start the conversation or you’ve tried before and it didn’t go so well, we’re here to help.

This episode is a quick and easy resource to share directly with your loved ones. It addresses some common concerns and misconceptions about non-monogamy and shares tips for having more supportive and meaningful conversations.

In this episode, we talk about:

— Why non-monogamy isn't "better" or "more evolved" than monogamy

— Common concerns about non-monogamy and how to address them

— The importance of defining what a "successful" relationship means to you and your loved ones

— Why the kids are alright–research on children in non-monogamous families

— The core principles of ethical non-monogamy: consent, personal responsibility, and resilience

— Why non-monogamous relationship skills can benefit all types of relationships

— Common misconceptions about non-monogamy (it's not all about sex!)

— How to have supportive conversations with your non-monogamous loved ones

Resources mentioned in this episode:

— Elizabeth Sheff's longitudinal studies on polyamorous families

— Emily Nagoski's work on desire and sexuality

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Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

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