Ep 64: Is Trauma Sabotaging your relationship? How to stop projecting men of the past onto him

🔥 THIS WORK SAVED MY RELATIONSHIP

Because when I stopped projecting my past onto my man … I finally got to experience what deep, divine, sacred union really feels like.

Unhealed trauma with men has been at the root of almost every conflict or tense moment with my man. 💔 & I'm starting to think it's the MAIN reason that relationships fall apart ...

I grew up with a fierce single mum,

who drilled into me that men were not to be trusted.

Add in my deep abandonment wound from my dad leaving when I was one,

plus layers of sexual trauma … and yeah,

I had some SERIOUS work to do to feel safe with men.

And then … I said yes to becoming a wife last year. 😵‍💫

BOOM – ALL my sh*t came up.

The belief that men are incapable of love.
The fear that he’ll get bored and leave.
The old, worn-out narrative that “he doesn’t really love me, he’s a man.”

Sound familiar?

I DECIDED to rewrite my story about men so I could actually stop being BLINDED by my trauma & see the man in-front of me. 🖊️✨

And let me tell you, this shift changed everything. ❤️‍🔥

I now trust my man completely … even from 2,000 miles away.

I don't have thoughts about him leaving or losing interest.

I see and celebrate all the ways he shows up – and he meets me with even more love.

I feel safe bringing my raw emotions instead of playing “cool.”

I finally got to experience what deep, divine, sacred union really feels like.

I’m inviting you to take this journey with me, love...

SAFE IN UNION begins Feb 14th

– a 6-week transformational experience to rewrite your beliefs about men so you can finally relax into love & receive like a Goddess.

💋 Weekly audio trainings (listen on-the-go)
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Let’s heal, so we can finally be held. 💋

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