EP#133: Primal Play with Girlfriend Steph

Our girlfriend Steph and I believe that sex is "playtime" for adults, so we've made monthly Sexploration nights an important event on our calendars. We cover some of the fun we've explored, our recent trip to a dungeon, Steph's recent Primal Play adventure in Austin, TX and more.

Rediscovering Play as Adults (00:00:00)

Jennifer and Steph discuss their experiences with rediscovering play as adults, the challenges they faced, and the importance of incorporating playfulness in their lives.

Primal Play and Its Appeal (00:12:32)

Steph shares her experience with primal play, describing its physical and emotional aspects, and the appeal of letting go of control and embracing animalistic instincts.

Exploring Primal Play (00:17:14)

Jennifer and Steph delve into the concept of primal play, discussing its connection to one's true nature, including exercises and experiences related to primal play, and the significance of embracing one's natural scent and physical sensations.

Taking Small Steps into Primal Play (00:20:07)

Steph suggests small steps for individuals to explore primal play, such as experimenting with different touches, pressures, and interactions to introduce a sense of playfulness and exploration in their relationships.

Play in Non-Monogamous Relationships (00:22:33)

Discussion on incorporating play in non-monogamous relationships and encouraging partners to try new things.

Primal and Sensory Play (00:23:25)

Exploring primal play, sensory play, and incorporating curiosity and childlike exploration into sexual experiences.

Food Play and Sensation Play (00:24:15)

Discussion of primal play involving food, sensation play, and the importance of getting in touch with pleasure and body sensations.

Exploring Sexual Curiosity (00:26:01)

Encouraging reframing and curiosity in sexual experiences, including using sex toys and exploring different sensations.

Pleasure and Mindfulness (00:28:49)

Emphasizing mindfulness in experiencing pleasure, including exploring breath, sound, and body sensations.

Erotic Blueprints and Sexual Fulfillment (00:30:22)

Encouraging understanding of individual erotic blueprints and how different partners may have different sexual preferences.

Sexual Exploration and Playful Experimentation (00:34:27)

Emphasizing the importance of experimenting, following curiosity, and exploring different aspects of sexual play.

Exploration Date and Permission to Play (00:34:51)

Suggesting scheduling exploration dates and giving permission to explore different sexual activities and experiences.

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