you’re not failing, you’re just too hard on yourself

In this conversation, I discuss the detrimental effects of self-criticism and perfectionism on mental health and productivity. By fostering healthy habits and recognizing toxic habits, individuals can build confidence and redefine their understanding of success. Ultimately, self-love and acceptance are presented as foundational elements for personal growth and fulfillment.Takeaways:Bullying yourself does not lead to success.Chronic self-criticism triggers cortisol overload, harming mental health.Self-compassion enhances productivity and resilience.Perfectionism can hinder personal growth and achievement.External validation is not a sustainable source of self-worth.Healthy habits contribute to building self-confidence.Recognizing toxic relationships is essential for self-growth.Self-love involves deep alignment and acceptance of oneself.Redefining success is necessary for true fulfillment.Mindfulness and self-acceptance are crucial for personal well-being.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#stellaraepodcast Chapters00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism02:49 The Power of Mindfulness and Self-Compassion05:48 Building Confidence Through Healthy Habits08:59 Recognizing Toxic Relationships12:06 Redefining Success and Self-Love