We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop. How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons. The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms). Show Notes: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code SWE. Buy The Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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SWE: Embarrassing Sex Stories

SWE: Embarrassing Sex Stories

Emily is Las Vegas bound and wants to go to the shooting range. Strippers are the best talkers, orgasms at the gym while using the thighmaster, and your first time having sex will probably be horrible. It’s perfectly normal. Guest Barbie Davenporte, writer for LAWeekly's sex blog AfterDarkLA, tells embarrassing stories about balls and a threesome with two men: one gay and the other engaged.  Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Maalis 201346min

SWE: How to Seduce a Woman Tonight

SWE: How to Seduce a Woman Tonight

Emily interviews dating and relationship coach David Wygant on how to have confidence and talk to women, even if you have no confidence whatsoever and have no idea what to say. David tells you how to walk up to a woman at a cafe and hit on her without having her ruthlessly reject you. She'll even want to talk to you, go out with you, and then sleep with you. David demonstrates how he would pick up Emily at a cafe and slowly seduces her. The show turns to sex and how to cultivate the "power of the pussy." Do not put the pussy on a pedestal when you're hitting on her, but when you sleep with her you're mission is to pleasure the pussy. David and Emily explain how to crack her sexual code, and the exact moves that will make you great in bed. Want to learn more about David's special sexual techniques that give you the power of the pussy? Click here for more of David Wygant's secrets to become The Best Lover She's Ever Had. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Maalis 20131h 4min

SWE: What Men & Women Want

SWE: What Men & Women Want

1,000 women tell you what they want in bed. Emily breaks down men and women’s biggest sex insecurities and the single most important thing to them during sex. Emily tells you what they want and how to give it to them. In other news, Emily edits all her friend’s sexts before they send them and shares how to cultivate good sextiquette. Then she explains what happens to your brain when you orgasm and how to date people you actually want to be with. Emily also answers listeners emails about complimenting women, troubles ejaculating during oral sex, and how to get your wife to listen to Sex with Emily. Please support our sponsors: Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Maalis 201358min

SWE- How to meet someone

SWE- How to meet someone

Emily gives you the low-down on lube and why it makes sex that much better. But before you lube up, you may or may not need to find a partner. Emily and her cohost Menace give tips for meeting someone outside the bar. You might just find your next GF/BF at the laundromat. In other news, Menace tried Viagra, got waxed, and now it’s time for him to get his penis P-jazzled (decorated with rhinestones). Emily tells you how to send a naked photo, how to count condoms to see if he's cheating, and when it's time to hire a private investigator. Emily also answers listeners questions about sex toys for men, slowly undressing women, and fantasizing about someone else while having sex. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Maalis 201358min

SWE- Slow vs. Rough

SWE- Slow vs. Rough

This show will teach you how to make sweet love or how to tie up your partner, depending on what kind of mood you're in. With a little butt slapping here, a little shallow thrusting there, and a little neck nibbling, Emily shows you how to have slow and rough sex. You have to mediate on her vagina and cultivate the perfect butt slap-- two of the most important skills in life.Emily also discusses how women can have orgasms. Once you learn how your own body works and buy a vibrator, you'll be ready to have orgasmic sex whether you're tied to the bedposts or making slow passionate love. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Helmi 201337min

SWE- Titillating Tips

SWE- Titillating Tips

A show overflowing with titillating sex tips and talk about Emily's cleavage. Emily wants to know why men don't undress women anymore. Gentleman, you need to change your lackluster ways. Emily gives tips for how men can be less boring in bed and tips for how women can initiate more sex. Emily also talks about jealousy, how Facebook has changed relationships, and your glorious inner-thighs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 Helmi 201350min

SWE- Sex for Grownups

SWE- Sex for Grownups

Sex is your birthright, use it forever. Emily interviews celebrity psychologist, "sexpert," and wise elder Dr. Dorree Lynn about how to have amazing sex after 50. While you might not be able to do it on the kitchen table anymore, you can still have sex on the floor. Emily and Dr. Dorree give advice for men and women with low libido, sex after menopause, and talking to your partner about changing your sex life. Do not settle for a life without sex. The golden years are for getting it on. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Helmi 201338min

SWE- Recharging Women's Sex Drive

SWE- Recharging Women's Sex Drive

43% of women experience low libido. Whether it's menopause, stress, anti-depressants, medical problems or something else, women often blame themselves for their slumping sex drive. Emily talks with Rachel Braun Scherl, President of Semprae Laboratories (the creators of the revolutionary female product Zestra), about why so many women experience low libido and what they can do to get their sex drive back. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

19 Helmi 201323min

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