CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT10 Loka 2024

Part 2: Adult Children Share Their Perspective

In this episode, Whitney shares the findings from a survey of 2382 estranged adult children. She offers a deep dive into why many distance themselves from their parents. The survey reveals common themes such as unresolved conflict, emotional or physical harm, and the lasting impact of difficult childhood experiences, where self-preservation sometimes means breaking away.

What You Will Learn:

[07:40] A breakdown of the findings from the 2382 estranged adult children survey
[25:20] The responses and how they reflect and align with our experiences
[26:04] A preview of part 3 and what to look forward to

Standout Quotes:

“If your parent harmed you or you continue to be harmed by them, you have a right to protect yourself in the same way you do in other harmful or abusive relationships.” [03:52]
“Parent and adult children, if they choose to have contact, both have a responsibility to show up as respective civil adults.” [04:05]

Let’s Connect

Have a question for Whitney? Call Home at 866-225-5466.

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