Let me go... Tips for leaving your abuser

Let me go... Tips for leaving your abuser

Leaving someone that is toxic in a relationship is hard! The decision is not made lightly or without much thought. This can be between you and a family member or an intimate partner.

I mentioned copying documents and here is the list:

If you are concerned your partner will notice these are gone make copies of the original and leave the copies!

Marriage/Birth certificates

Social Security cards

Bills- Student loans, Credit cards, medical

Financial records

Medical records/shot records

Diplomas

Passports

Pay stubs

Income tax records

Mortgage/Rent contract

Business contacts/info

Have an old school paper type of phone book with contacts- Note an emergency contact!

Car registration/Insurance

Medical insurance cards

Investment info/401k

Old protective orders- this shows there were past problems

Photos

Bankruptcy discharges

Any other legal info- lawsuits, tickets, summons, immigration paperwork/green cards, custody papers

Journals

History of the violence- include pictures and note the dates

Are you thinking of leaving? What steps are you taking? Also, have you ever said those 3 little words to a partner about them letting you go?


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