129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

Does your brain have a very all-or-nothing way of looking at yourself and your relationships? You either did it perfectly or you're terrible. You're a good friend or a bad friend. Your partner either says the exact right thing or they must not care about you at all. If so - you're not alone! Our brains are actually predisposed to be very black & white in the way they think - preferring things to fit neatly into set categories - leaving very little room for nuance or shades of grey. In tod...

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46. Their brain does not think like yours (and that doesn't make them wrong)

46. Their brain does not think like yours (and that doesn't make them wrong)

Ever feel like you and your partner just see things differently? And can't seem to get on the same page? Ever find yourself feeling hurt, offended or rejected because your loved ones didn't something...

4 Elo 202318min

45. Stop trying to buy an iPhone from McDonalds

45. Stop trying to buy an iPhone from McDonalds

Feeling like you just WISH your partner or friends or family members would behave differently? Do you wish they'd give you more affection, or text you more, or show more support, or be more open about...

28 Heinä 202319min

44. When everything sucks

44. When everything sucks

Are you going through a tough time right now? And feeling like you're struggling to deal with all the negative emotion you're experiencing? Maybe it's a break-up, some bad news, or or a situation co...

21 Heinä 202323min

43. Am I justified in feeling this way?

43. Am I justified in feeling this way?

Ever feel really justified in feeling angry or hurt by something someone has said or done? Sometimes we can feel justified in thinking about things in a way that creates so much pain and suffering. ...

14 Heinä 202324min

42. Lessons from 3 years sober

42. Lessons from 3 years sober

In today's episode, I'm talking about my journey being alcohol-free for 3 years and the lessons I've learnt while giving up alcohol. If you have no interest in giving up alcohol - DON'T SKIP THIS EPIS...

7 Heinä 202323min

41. Why avoidant people trigger you

41. Why avoidant people trigger you

Feel like you can feel totally calm and secure when around certain people - but then that one slightly more avoidant partner or friend sends your anxiety into overdrive? You are not alone. In this e...

30 Kesä 202324min

40. When to compromise

40. When to compromise

We are often told that compromising is important in any healthy relationship. But what does that really mean? Is it always true? When is it okay to not compromise and how do we make that decision?...

23 Kesä 202316min

39. Regret is optional (decision making)

39. Regret is optional (decision making)

Do you find yourself thinking about things in the past and feeling a lot of regret?Or do you find yourself trying to make a decision and feeling paralysed with fear about making the 'wrong' one and re...

16 Kesä 202330min

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