129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

129. Perfectionism and black & white thinking in relationships

Does your brain have a very all-or-nothing way of looking at yourself and your relationships? You either did it perfectly or you're terrible. You're a good friend or a bad friend. Your partner either says the exact right thing or they must not care about you at all. If so - you're not alone! Our brains are actually predisposed to be very black & white in the way they think - preferring things to fit neatly into set categories - leaving very little room for nuance or shades of grey. In tod...

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116. Stop letting your story about the past ruin your relationships

116. Stop letting your story about the past ruin your relationships

Our brains are always constructing a narrative. We make meanings out of the things that have happened in our pasts, and then these stories shape and distort the way we think about situations in our ...

3 Tammi 202524min

115. Dealing with unmet expectations

115. Dealing with unmet expectations

Do you feel a little frustrated, disappointed or let down by some of the people in your life right now? Maybe you had expectations of how certain relatives or loved ones would behave over Christmas, ...

27 Joulu 202423min

114. Boundaries and regressing around family (Holiday special)

114. Boundaries and regressing around family (Holiday special)

Feeling dread as Christmas approaches? Worrying about spending time with family members and feeling triggered?Have you done a lot of work on yourself this year, and fear that it may all fly out the wi...

20 Joulu 202411min

113. If it's not my partner's job to 'make me feel good', what's the point of relationships? (BLAST FROM THE PAST)

113. If it's not my partner's job to 'make me feel good', what's the point of relationships? (BLAST FROM THE PAST)

This week, I'm resharing one of my older episodes which answers a really common question I get when I teach people that their partners don't create their feelings.People ask me: 'But if my partner isn...

13 Joulu 202417min

112. Our obsession with ‘red flags’ (and why it’s unhelpful)

112. Our obsession with ‘red flags’ (and why it’s unhelpful)

Do you see posts on Instagram about red flags and instantly feel the pit of anxiety in your stomach? Are you often worried about missing the signs that your partner isn't trustworthy? And have you ...

6 Joulu 202423min

111. Breaking the pattern (navigating reoccurring issues)

111. Breaking the pattern (navigating reoccurring issues)

Do you and your partner often have the same fight over and over? Or is there an issue you have with a friend that has been happening for a while now - and you just can't seem to break the cycle? Do ...

29 Marras 202423min

110. Codependent thinking

110. Codependent thinking

We can all be a little codependent sometimes. We're all humans with human brains after all! But sometimes codependent ways of thinking can take on a life of their own - and create a lot of anxiety, f...

22 Marras 202422min

109. What NOT to do when you're anxious

109. What NOT to do when you're anxious

When we're feeling anxious, there are certain things that are going to help us...And certain things that aren't... In today's episode, I'm talking about the things that DO NOT help you when you're fee...

15 Marras 202418min

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