The Truth About The Spark in Relationships

The Truth About The Spark in Relationships

Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back in relationships and sex. We're talking about why the spark is not what you think and what you're actually looking for. In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons and I discuss: ● Why the initial 'spark' might be misleading. ● The importance of evolving and growing in relationships. ● How trauma responses affect attraction and intimacy. ● The difference between intensity and intimacy. ● Practical ways to cultivate a sustainable and fulfilling connection. I share personal experiences and insights on dating, attraction, and the journey toward deeper self-understanding. Dr. Scott Lyons brings his expertise as a trauma therapist and somatic healer to help us understand the complexities of relationships and sexuality. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Rekindling the Spark: What You Need to Know 00:02:45 - The Reality of Growth: Attraction Can Evolve 00:07:57 - Freedom vs. Attachment: Different Relationship Patterns 00:11:10 - Evolving Attraction: Hemisexuals, Saposexuals, and Demisexuals 00:15:03 - The Attraction ICK: Is There an Attraction Spark? 00:19:29 - Peeling Away the Layers: The Beauty of Intimacy 00:22:49 - The Honeymoon Period Is Drunk: Sobering Up and Finding Organic Excitement 00:27:40 - Variety and Newness: Keeping the Spark Alive 00:31:17 - Passion or Safety: Cultivating Eroticism in Safety 00:35:56 - Arousal Runway: Pottery Classes and Cooking Meals 00:40:19 - Developing New Habits: Making Time for Connection 00:42:51 - Chasing the Familiar: Red Flags as a Spark 00:46:16 - The Importance of Feeling Safe 00:49:54 - Childhood Was Perfect: Somatic Therapy and Nervous System Regulation 00:53:10 - Grounding in Our Senses: Getting Back to Sensuality and Connection 00:56:26 - Healing Patterns: Not Taking the Bait 00:58:20 - Sustainable, Healthy, Loving Relationships: Going the Distance Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Try Dipsea Free for 30 Days! Right now, you can get a 30-day free trial PLUS 25% off your annual subscription at DipseaStories.com/SWE See the full show notes at www.sexwithemily.com

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SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

Emily and Menace get wet over the Container Store, guest Wendy Strgar talks love and intimacy, everybody poops...and everybody snoops, Dick Van Dyke is alive and still getting laid, how far you should go to please your partner, and using lubricant with someone you love. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 Maalis 201237min

SWE: Sex Etiquette

SWE: Sex Etiquette

Emily shows women around the world how to prevent lipstick on the teeth and the best way to tell someone they have something on their face during a first date. Also, never prematurely “babe” someone on a date. Emily teaches male ejaculation etiquette, including keeping her in the loop on  your ejaculation plan. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Maalis 20121h 1min

SWE: Prostate Play

SWE: Prostate Play

Emily interviews Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations who teaches listeners all about the prostate, from finding it to how to treat it. Many straight men don’t realize the untapped pleasure of the  prostate, or the male G-spot.In other news, Christina Hendrick's boobs and the end of the “Great Hand Job debate” might be in sight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Maalis 201242min

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

Emily talks about self-esteem, its effects on your sex life, and how to get your game face on. Earthquakes, sexy shoes, ruining sex for others, enjoying masturbation more than intercourse, and Emily flirts with her exes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Maalis 201237min

SWE: Just the Tip

SWE: Just the Tip

Emily discusses all things oral sex, from consummation to cleanup. A show that’s so much more than “just the tip.”Also, couple massages, sleeping with your yoga teacher, birth control for men, and stuff you should never tell someone you’re dating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2 Maalis 20121h 1min

SWE: Divorced Dating Tips

SWE: Divorced Dating Tips

Emily has a sexual dream about 80-year-old Oscar winner Christopher Plummer. Menace goes to Disneyland again and drunk dials Emily's assistant. Emily talks about America’s pubic hair trends and how to start dating after a divorce. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Helmi 201245min

SWE: American Gangbang

SWE: American Gangbang

Emily interviews formerporn director Sam Benjamin talks about his new book American Gangbang: A Love Story. He describes what’s its like sleeping with porn stars, directing amateur porn, and the golden shower rule. Also, if he directed Emily’s dream porno it would involve a cop. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

24 Helmi 201246min

SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

People get into the same bad relationships over and over again. Emily talks about how it’s important to recognize your patterns, whether you fall for the bad boy or a momma’s boy. Also, how not to appear needy but still tell someone what you want. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Helmi 201242min

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