Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings

Ep 530: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 5. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Plus, other new book releases! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Spring Break & Stranded with her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men: On the Court Reverse Harem, why choose, mild impact play, multiple partner, sexual empowerment and exploration: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourtrw Taboo version https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1627596 https://edenbooks.com/product/spring-break-stranded-with-her-bffs-brothers-plus-6-men-on-the-court-book-3/ CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Marras 202444min

Ep 529: Unlocking the Secrets to Women's Pleasure, Empowerment, and Sexual Well-being, Embracing Pleasure with Danielle Savory - A Journey to Empowerment. In this enlightening episode, Ruan Willow is joined by Danielle Savory, a sex and intimacy coach, podcast host, and advocate for women's pleasure and wellbeing. Together, they delve into the critical importance of prioritizing sexual health and pleasure in one's life. Danielle shares her insights on how neglecting this aspect can lead to a less fulfilled life and how embracing it can lead to empowerment and personal growth. Discover the biological and physiological benefits of pleasure, and how societal norms often hinder our natural desires. Danielle and Ruan discuss the misconceptions surrounding female pleasure and self care, the impact of societal shame, and the importance of communication with partners. They also explore the transformative power of understanding one's own body and the liberation that comes with shedding shame and embracing sexual wellness. Whether you're looking to enhance your own sexual wellbeing or seeking to understand the dynamics of pleasure more deeply, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Danielle emphasizes the need for personal motivation and finding a "why" that resonates with you to truly embrace and prioritize pleasure in your life. Sexual health is a part of mental health. Learn more about Danielle at https://www.daniellesavory.com/ 01:08 Ruan Willow says many women put their sexual health on the back burner 08:47 When we are in stress cycles, our nervous system becomes more vulnerable 14:56 Shaking is your body's way of getting rid of trauma and stress 18:15 What are some reasons women are denying the indulgence of sexual pleasure 25:29 I think we need to accept that we're gonna mess up along the way 29:59 One thing I never knew about my vulva area is color change 35:41 Women can also multiple orgasm, whereas... 40:17 Studies on how long women take to reach arousal versus climax are getting shorter 47:19 Danielle says women need a place to celebrate pleasure 51:59 Your resistance to pleasure will never stop because your life is changing Don't miss out on this episode that could change the way you view pleasure and its role in your life. Tune in and start your journey towards a more empowered and pleasurable life today! Find Danielle Savory on Instagram at @thepracticeofpleasure and explore her podcast It's My Pleasure for more insights. Show notes created by https://headliner.app Quotes from Danielle Savory; "A pleasured woman is an empowered woman." "Our nervous system thinks you're a tiger right now. Let me soothe my nervous system and then we can get back to being human beings." "Find your reason, but you've got to find a why that really resonates and makes sense to you in order to actually make a change." Quotes from Ruan Willow: "Pleasure is a birthright. This is what our bodies were meant to do." "We weren't given our taste buds to not taste foods." Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Marras 202454min

Ep 528: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 4. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for one more chapter coming next week! CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). Spring Break & Stranded with her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men: On the Court Reverse Harem, why choose, mild impact play, multiple partner, sexual empowerment and exploration: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakandstrandedwithherbffsbrothersplus6menonthecourtrw Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Loka 202433min

Ep 526: From Lifesaver to Dominatrix, Mistress Kora Bell Shares her Spicy New Adventures! Kora Bell is a dynamic personality with a unique journey from the medical field to becoming a renowned dominatrix and adult content creator. Discover how she navigated the transition from a respiratory therapist to embracing her adventurous spirit and exploring her passion for femdom content. Mistress Kora Bell shares her intriguing life story, from her early days in the medical field to her transformative experiences that lead to her eventual foray into the world of OnlyFans and dominatrix sessions. Listen as she discusses the challenges and triumphs of balancing personal growth, motherhood, and a burgeoning career in adult entertainment. Explore the intricacies of BDSM, the importance of consent, and the empowerment that comes from embracing one's sexuality. Mistress Kora Bell opens up about her experiences at various adult industry and Exxxotica events, her love for motorcycle riding, swinging lifestyle, and the meaningful stories behind her tattoos. This episode is a fascinating glimpse into the life of a woman who defies conventions and embraces her true self, all while helping others explore their own sexual identities. 00:00:33 Mistress Kora Bell shoots Fem Dom content in addition to traditional 00:01:56 I'm actually an RN too 00:02:19 Tell us a little bit about your story.  00:09:10 Why is everything so sex negative? Why do people think sex is bad? 00:10:11 When you got fired 00:15:19 You have a medical background in what you do now 00:16:05 Do you have favorite paraphernalia 00:18:02 Are there a lot of clubs near you 00:19:11 Do you feel like you miss the medical field at all or you just 00:21:22 Did you ever have any issues with people pushing back with your lifestyle 00:26:46 You split up with your husband 00:29:03 You say you learned about sexuality through experience and research 00:35:04 The importance of testing is something that needs to be promoted more 00:37:05 orgies depend on the atmosphere and your connection with people 00:38:32 Do you tend to have a connection with people you shoot with 00:41:09 Do you have specific scenarios you love to do in films 00:42:23 Would you ever take a role where you're a submissive 00:43:29 Tell us something about yourself recently that surprised you 00:51:00 Tell us about your tattoos and what they represent 00:56:41 Tell us about your motorcycle riding 00:59:33 Have you taken sexy pics on your bike? I have, yes 01:08:55 Talk about your dogs 01:10:50 Do you have any advice for people to explore their sexuality better 01:13:01 Do you have a favorite sex toy https://www.mistresskorabell.com/ Show notes with https://headliner.app Trick or Treat II anthology (affiliate links, podcast may receive a commission): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Not So Guilty Charity anthology: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Loka 20241h 16min

Ep 525: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 3. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Scroll down to find out about the hurricane relief anthology with 40+ erotica authors and the just released spicy fiction Halloween anthology too! Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for one more chapter coming next week! CHARITY ANTHOLOGY! ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, A Limited Edition Collection from your Favorite Spicy Authors. Ge the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology 40+ flavors of spice, one sweet cause. We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places). So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint! Note: Reading in public may cause spontaneous fanning, uncontrollable grins, and an irresistible urge to wink at strangers. Proceed with caution and a tall glass of water! Trick or Tease II Erotica Halloween Anthology... Ruan has a story in this newly released spicy anthology! Get the spooky sexy paranormal wicked fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/trickorteaseIIhalloweenanthology Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Loka 202425min

Ep 523: Join Ruan Willow in a captivating conversation with Parneet, the co-founder of Theo Reads, a groundbreaking platform dedicated to publishing romance and spicy stories. This episode dives deep into the inspiration behind Theo Reads, a space that promises to break taboos around desire and provide readers with a wide range of tropes, kinks, and spice levels without the censorship found elsewhere. Parneet shares her journey from a seasoned marketing expert to a passionate advocate for romance and spice literature. She discusses the challenges faced by authors in the current publishing landscape and how Theo Reads aims to create a safe, inclusive space for both readers and writers. Discover how this platform plans to revolutionize the way we consume and appreciate romantic and spicy narratives, catering to every fantasy from mild to extra spicy. Explore the unique features of Theo Reads, including their commitment to well-written stories, engaging plotlines, and diverse characters. Learn about the importance of normalizing desire and intimacy across all communities and the critical role of romance and spice in enhancing personal relationships and wellbeing. Quote from Parneet "It's 2024, people. Enough with the guilt and the shame. Can we just normalize desire and intimacy?" Quote from Ruan Willow "Sex is natural. It's a part of being a human." Attention all romance authors and writers, indie authors, self publishing authors, those who write about love from spicy open door themes to closed door, come join Theo Reads! https://theoreads.com/ - 02:25 - Theo says readers want well written stories and romance and spice - 08:34 - Big tech companies are telling us what to read and it needs to stop - 13:04 - Sexual health is so incredibly important to our mental wellbeing and physical well being - 15:29 - 34% of men read or listen to romance and spice, survey finds - 19:09 - Are you able to share some of the names of the authors who will be featured - 25:07 - There is a stigma about reading romance which isn't true. The average romance and spice reader is better educated than the average American - 33:32 - it's incredibly hard to publish stories on Amazon and be seen How can people join Theo Reads? You can write to us - 42:48 - A lot of romance stories come from marginalized communities - 47:37 - As authors and readers, we need a symbiotic relationship - 49:12 - There's a huge disconnect between where authors post and where readers read stories - 53:31 - You do whatever you feel you have to do, you know, Instagram, et cetera - 53:46 - There is a need amongst authors for data like up to date data New! Over 40 spicy romance/erotica authors have joined forces to create a charity anthology! You can get spicy stories and help a cause at the same time! Get the Not-So-Guilty Pleasures: 40+ Filthy Stories for a Cause: A Charity Anthology. This is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief). https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology For a limited time only. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Loka 202456min

Ep 522: Weekend Hotwife Surprise, Chapter 2. Written and narrated by podcast host, erotica and erotic romance fiction author Ruan Willow (me!). Nola and Jasper have been married for many years and love to enjoy each other sexually. Due to work and family life obligations, exercising their marital sex life has been extraordinarily challenging lately. They really need a spicy weekend away, just the two of them to rejuvenate their relationship. Luckily, they found someone to watch the kids and they are heading to a hotel for the weekend. A full weekend of sex! They can't wait. Jasper has dreamt up some hot sexy surprises for Nola, including something really epic she's always fantasized about but never thought they'd ever do. Being open together sexually is taken to the next level and their marriage will never be the same once the most exciting surprise is revealed. The full story contains spicy open door scenes, alternative lifestyle elements, wife sharing, explicit sex scenes, and hot-wife themes. Hey y'all! Get the smut! Enjoy this erotic audio storytelling full of steamy hot spicy sexuality and which focuses on the celebrating of open relationships! This book can be read on Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/weekendhotwifesurprise Stay tuned for more chapters in the coming weeks! Erotica and erotic romance author Ruan Willow's new fiction book, a Romantasy, an open door HEA spicy story of romance and fantasy, with romance first and foremost in importance: Wingless Hunger, Book 1 in the Arching Hunger Series. ARC's will be available on BookSirens. The book Wingless Hunger releases on October 15th, 2024 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger Buy a copy and help with the launch! The book is LIVE TODAY! It's also available in Kindle Unlimited on Amazon. Find podcast host Ruan Willow's books: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Check out this list of hot steamy books all available on Kindle Unlimited: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/5gLIk1D Spicy Audiobook list: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/4YFCMn1 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Loka 202413min

Season 4, Episode 521: 18+. Join Ruan Willow in an enlightening discussion with Brianna Carey, a relationship and intimacy coach with over 16 years of experience. Brianna shares her insights into the common challenges women face in reclaiming their desire and exploring pleasure, especially after significant life transitions like childbirth. This episode delves into the importance of communication, understanding, and the use of tools like sex toys to enhance intimacy in relationships. Brianna, along with her husband Mark, a licensed professional counselor, provides couples with the guidance needed to create deeper connections and more fulfilling intimacy in their marriage while navigating the complexities of parenthood. Discover how understanding the erotic blueprints can transform your sexual expression and relationship dynamics. This episode is packed with valuable advice on embracing pleasure, the significance of self-exploration, and the benefits of incorporating tools like vibrators into your intimate life. Women, learn why it's crucial to prioritize your pleasure and connection with your partner, and how to overcome societal stigmas surrounding female sexuality. Listen in as Ruan and Brianna discuss the power of pleasure, the journey to self-discovery, and how to break free from the constraints of guilt and shame. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or explore your own desires, this episode is a must-listen. 00:01:29 " Many women decide they don't want sex after having a baby 00:08:02 " External stimulation is so important during pregnancy and postpartum care 00:12:45 " You work with women who are ready to take ownership of their pleasure 00:16:11 " About 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm 00:21:58 " Bullet 00:26:58 " Use lubricants 100% in the bedroom, not just vibrators 00:27:41 " The erotic blueprints help you understand each other and how to communicate 00:32:52 " The first year postpartum is so crucial for a relationship 00:36:58 " What drove you to create your podcast, and what type of things do 00:41:51 " Women need to take 30 minutes a week to relax and enjoy their bodies Connect with Brianna: https://www.intimacyevolution.com/ Quotes from Brianna: "If you don't use it, you lose it, applies to your libido and orgasms." "Every woman deserves to experience their pleasure to the absolute fullest and know what desire is and create that." "Release the expectation of an end result, and you will see how much more you're able to enjoy it." Quotes from Ruan: "Why does our culture have to see it differently when it's our genitals, it's just another part of our body." "We are sexual beings. We are. It's okay to enjoy it. It's okay to want it." Books: Servicing the Work Men https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures I Dare You https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Loka 202447min