Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings

Ep: 621, The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch with Jake (Jakub Tyl) Discover how synchronized breathing and emotional presence can transform intimate relationships in ways you never imagined. In this fascinating episode, professional bodyworker Jake shares his unique perspective on the intersection of touch, emotion, and healing, particularly in women's experiences. Through his four years of specialized practice in erotic, tantric, and BDSM massage, Jake reveals how authentic intimacy transcends technical expertise. He emphasizes that true connection happens when partners are fully present and attuned to each other's emotional states. Key highlights: - The transformative power of therapeutic touch - How body awareness leads to better relationship choices - Breaking through emotional barriers from past relationships - The importance of presence and trust in intimate connections - Using synchronized breathing to deepen emotional bonds Ready to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy and emotional connection? Listen to this eye-opening episode that challenges conventional wisdom about relationships and personal growth. Tune in now to explore how deep emotional presence can transform your approach to intimacy and relationships. Find out more about Jake: https://www.dotekerota.com/hole On Instagram @dotek.erota Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction to Jake's Unique Profession 00:02:06 - Understanding Female Sexuality and Connection 00:10:21 - Connecting with Your Body and Emotions 00:24:38 - Challenges of Intimacy in Relationships 00:26:58 - Emotional Connection in Intimacy 00:52:28 - Understanding Touch and Connection 00:58:14 - Overcoming Intimacy Expectations 01:03:55 - Intimacy Beyond Technique 01:14:26 - Enjoying the Present Moment in Intimacy 01:18:02 - Understanding Sensual BDSM Dynamics 01:22:52 - Balancing Aggression and Tenderness in BDSM 01:25:27 - Building Trust in Dominance 01:32:08 - Embracing Dominance and Learning Key Takeaways: • The emphasis on synchronized breathing as a tool for fostering deeper intimacy is often overlooked in traditional relationship discussions.   • Jake highlights that emotional breakthroughs through intimacy can redefine women's boundaries and desires, showcasing a transformative aspect of touch.   • The podcast advocates for emotional engagement over mechanical techniques, suggesting that true connection requires presence and trust rather than just physical actions. Sexual health is a part of mental health, don't ignore it. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Kesä 1h 32min

Episode 619: Age Gap Tea Bagging and Oral, Erotica Excerpt from Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, Book blurb: Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club. Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries. And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked! When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life! Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip! Tropes:  erotica, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment. Get the book (releasing July 1, 2025): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Learn more about book 1 and book 2: Mallory and Derek, about books 1 and 2 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Kesä 15min

**From Banking to Beautiful Moments: A Photographer's Journey of Healing** Discover how "The Fiddler of Light," a former banker turned photographer and visual artist, transformed personal struggles into powerful artistic expression. After experiencing burnout, Greg found salvation through his camera lens, evolving from train photography to creating intimate portraits that celebrate human vulnerability and beauty, including the art of nude photography. This episode delves deep into the delicate art of nude photography, exploring how authentic connections and trust create transformative experiences for both photographer and subject, as well as the viewer of the photos. Greg shares compelling insights about cultural differences between European and American approaches to nudity, while emphasizing the crucial distinction between artistic expression and sexuality. Most powerfully, Greg reveals how photography became his healing tool, helping not only himself but also his subjects embrace self-acceptance and recognize their unique beauty. Through his lens, he's helped individuals with personal struggles, including those battling illness and self-image issues, find new perspectives on their bodies and themselves. Ready to explore the intersection of art, healing, and human connection? Listen to this powerful episode about finding light in unexpected places. 00:00:00 - Introducing Photographer Greg from Germany 00:01:04 - From Banking to Photography Journey, mental health 00:03:57 - Journey from Burnout to Photography 00:06:36 - Importance of Human Connection in Photography 00:08:44 - Rediscovering Self-Confidence Through Photography 00:10:55 - Creating Beauty Through Photography 00:13:35 - Understanding Nude Photography Motivations 00:15:49 - Nudity vs. Sexuality Debate 00:16:52 - Photography and Nudity in Different Cultures 00:19:22 - Nude Photography and Artistic Boundaries 00:23:49 - Capturing Trust and Inspiration in Photography 00:26:24 - Embracing Sensuality and Self-Love 00:29:29 - Future Aspirations in Photography 00:32:40 - Transformative Journey Through Art 00:37:25 - Support Through Photography and Art • Greg's transition from an uninteresting, unmotivating banking career to the joys and delights of photography was driven by a personal burnout, illustrating the significant impact of mental health on career choices.   • He emphasizes the critical role of consent and comfort in nude photography, which challenges conventional restrictive views on this artistic genre, and breaks down the taboos of nude pictures while highlighting the artistic beauty and celebratory views of the body as a work of natural art.   • Greg views photography not just as a visual medium, but as a form of communication and connection that promotes self-acceptance and reevaluates societal norms surrounding nudity. Nudity is not always sexual, it can be sensual, and he champions that mantra in his photography work. Find out more about The Fiddler of Light: https://www.fiddler-of-light.de/ Summary by Cleanvoice. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Kesä 39min

Ep 616: Sex on the Beach, Excerpt from The Siren Who Couldn't Sing, An Open Door Erotic Romantasy Tale. Get book 1, Wingless Hunger, in audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshungeraudiobook Buy the Book The Siren Who Couldn't Sing: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing Get all four novellas in Deception's Snare: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnare eBooks are also currently available in Kindle Unlimited (subject to change). Also available in paperback. The Open Door Romantasy Continues from Wingless Hunger to The Siren Who Couldn't Sing (book 2 in the series) ... Gabriella finds herself nude on the beach and reaching out for her hero again. Story blurb: Gabriella finally found what she was looking for. As a fairy-siren-human, she was with the love of her life, a human male named Leif. Gabriella and Leif settled into a happy life, but everything changes when Gabriella is summoned back to the sea. The siren in her makes her ocean bound journey smooth, that is until an unseen force starts messing with the couple and splits them up. While they feel like powerless pawns in a chess game as their hearts and bodies get wrenched from each other, all they want is their happily ever after, if only the one in power will allow that to happen. Enjoy book 2 in the Arching Hunger Series, a spicy open-door HEA Romantasy, with explicit intimate scenes, forced proximity, devotion, love, and a shrinking & growing woman. This a relationship driven romance first fantasy saga, where the relationship is topmost. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Kesä 17min

Season 5, Episode 615: Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey of Sexual Exploration After 60. Listen to Greg's personal story! Topics include personal stories of:  intimacy sex  kinks male sexual health sexual wellness male sexuality female sexuality sensuality communication personal growth rediscovery sex and aging interactions between a male and female partner in sexual explorations within a relationship Finding Love and Sexual Liberation After 60 Discover how one man's unexpected connection with a younger partner revolutionized his understanding of intimacy and sexuality in his golden years. Greg's story challenges conventional wisdom about age and desire, proving it's never too late for transformative relationships. Through candid conversations, Greg shares his journey from a sexually restrictive marriage to embracing open communication and exploration with a new partner. His experience highlights the profound impact of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries, demonstrating how breaking free from societal constraints can lead to unprecedented personal growth. Key highlights: - Transitioning from a closed-off marriage to an open, communicative relationship - Exploring new dimensions of intimacy with a younger partner - Breaking age-related stereotypes about sexuality - The importance of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries - Finding hope and renewal in later-life relationships This powerful episode offers inspiration and practical insights for anyone questioning their sexual future, regardless of age. Listen now to discover how embracing vulnerability and openness can lead to extraordinary connections at any stage of life. 🎧 Tune in to hear Greg's full story and learn why it's never too late to rewrite your relationship narrative. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sexuality After 60: A Personal Journey 00:03:46 - Importance of Open Sexual Communication 00:06:11 - Challenges in Marital Communication 00:08:55 - Exploring New Sexual Experiences 00:10:22 - Exploring Sex Toys Together 00:14:14 - Preparing for Future Relationships 00:17:15 - Discovering Female Sensuality 00:19:00 - Exploring Sensuality and Intimacy 00:22:02 - Overcoming Shame in Relationships 00:25:58 - Exploring Female Sexuality and Orgasms 00:28:40 - Exploring Sexual Boundaries and Preferences 00:30:47 - Exploring New Experiences Together 00:32:23 - Open Communication in Relationships 00:34:20 - Unexpected Honey Experience 00:35:59 - Importance of Communication in Relationships Summary: Cleanvoice Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Touko 38min

Season 5, Episode 613: An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Hunger at Bay, A Cheating Story, Her Refuge, written and narrated by podcast host, author, and narrator Ruan Willow. When Seeing Her Lover is a Refuge to Feeling Alive Again. Erotica fiction where Dana is a lonely woman who is withering away with a thirst for way more than her husband is willing to give her, and when he doesn't even bother to remotely give her what she needs, nor what she deserves, she finds someone who will. Enter Chef George. He makes her feel alive, helps her explore her sexuality, and not only accepts, but glorifies the sexy sexual being that she is. How could something that feels this right be wrong? The answer is...it can't be. Enjoy this story of about complicated taboo relationships, sexuality, seeking one's needs, the search for feeling alive again, and the forbidden love of a secret lover.  Entertainment arts can come in the form of an erotic romance short story, providing tales that stretch our minds, help us process life, and give us different perspectives to consider, all through the art of storytelling. This can greatly impact our lives. Takeaways to ponder: Does this story trigger you?  Why? Why not? Do you identify with any of the characters? Why do people cheat? Would you ever decide on trying ethical nonmonogamy in your relationship? Life is messy, complicated, and convoluted, but ignoring your sexuality surely ends in disaster, low quality of life, and unfulfillment. Don't ignore your sexuality/sexual health/sexual wellness, or that of your partner, that's one of the keys to a successful relationship and a happier life. Ruan's upcoming release: A Why Choose Dark Romance Novel Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with 8 Men https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakstrandedcabineightmen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Touko 12min

Ep 612: MMMMMF Excerpt and Embracing Diversity in Fiction: The Healing Power of Sex-Positive Storytelling with Author Emily S. Hurricane. Excerpt from "Choke Hold" written by Emily S. Hurricane, narrated by Ruan Willow. Guest Bio:  Emily is an east-coast Canadian thirtysomething mom of two gremlins. Her lumbersexual husband doesn't actually work in lumber anymore, but he still wears the plaid and the beard. As well as authoring, she's a freelance editor and ghostwriter.  Her books range in genre from Romance and Erotica to Horror and Science Fiction, and everything in between. When she's not writing and/or momming, she's sipping espresso, crocheting, and listening to audiobooks. You can find Emily and her collected works at emilyshurricane.com Image painted by Clayton Chandler  Links: Website: www.emilyshurricane.com  Patreon: www.patreon.com/eshurricane Erotica Substack: hurricaneafterdark.substack.com/  Instagram: www.instagram.com/eshurricane Facebook: www.facebook.com/EmilySHurricane X: www.x.com/eshurricane  Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@eshurricane Summary:  Dive into the world of genre-bending storytelling with Canadian author Emily, who fearlessly explores everything from romance to horror, with a special focus on the transformative power of erotic fiction. Emily opens up about her journey from fan fiction to becoming a multi-genre author, sharing how her diverse reading tastes influence her writing. She candidly discusses navigating the challenges of content censorship while maintaining artistic integrity in the evolving landscape of indie publishing. The conversation delves into the importance of sex-positive storytelling and the healing potential of erotic literature. Emily's refreshing perspective on writing across genres, coupled with her experiences on various publishing platforms, offers valuable insights for both readers and aspiring authors. Highlighting the significance of consent and inclusivity in her work, Emily demonstrates how modern erotica can empower readers while breaking down traditional barriers in publishing. Key Takeaways: • Embracing diverse storytelling, including erotica, smut, spicy short fiction, can serve as a powerful tool for healing and personal empowerment.   • Censorship in traditional publishing is pushing authors to seek creative freedom through platforms like Patreon.   • Inclusivity and open discussions about consent and relationships are essential components in writing and sharing sex-positive narratives. Don't yuck another's yum! Shownotes made with the assistance of Cleanvoice ai Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Touko 1h 20min

Pulling this hot little narrative scene from the exclusive level to the main podcast so all can enjoy it! Erotic audio, erotic storytelling with a power play role play scenario. Let's get hot with erotic romance! Let's go! My Daddy Dom dominates me in the morning. It's a tale of dominance and submission which leads to mind-blowing pleasure for us both. Take the ride with us and ride the journey to high climaxing and deliciousness of moaning pleasure sounds. "Helluva way to start the day." Find more of Ruan's work in the form of erotic books and erotic NSFW audiobooks. Ruan narrates her books and that of other erotic authors. See all the available books here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Enjoy! I take requests at ruanwillow@gmail.com for topics/stories for this exclusive level of the podcast. Send me your request today and I'll do it! Have a super sexy day...don't forget to come today! Love ya, Ruan Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it! Use your body to make natural feel good hormones through climaxing. It's important for your relationship to yourself and those you share your intimate life with to do so. Consider this your 'permission' to indulge in self care... that is if you need permission.. ;) Marinate in your sexuality today and every day! It's so healthy for you! This is a sex-positive podcast because sex IS positive! Consent is sexy! Caring for yourself is positive and sexy. Subscribe for exclusives: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/s FREE erotica and erotic romance stories today through 5/21/25 https://storyoriginapp.com/to/swdynfr Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Touko 12min