Two Female Podcasters Talk About Sex, Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries & Ruan Willow

Ep 161: Polyamory, Kink, & Sex Ed with Dirty Lola. My guest is Dirty Lola and I'm excited to share her with you! She's a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. She's a sex-positive individual who openly shares about her personal and sex life. She recently was on the Netflix documentary "The Principles of Pleasure" so check out this show! Connect with Lola at her website: https://www.dirtylola.co/ and her podcast https://www.sexedagogo.com/ Sex Ed & Toys: Lola shares about sex education and how we should be doing it. She and I discuss the value of sex toys and break the negative falsehoods around using them. We discuss the benefits of using sex toys both solo and in a relationship/partnership.  She talks about the lack of knowledge in the world of the anatomy of the clitoris and how clit owners benefit from sex toy usage. Kink: Dirty Lola shares information for those interested in kink, how to get started, how to find it, and how best to proceed into such a way of life. She shares very helpful books (affiliate): The New Topping Book https://amzn.to/3A3roGa and The New Bottoming Book https://amzn.to/3OHMmOX (Another very popular book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton is The Ethical Slut https://amzn.to/3ncHoOj ) Lola instructs us to learn first before we just venture into the world of kink. Be safe. Arm yourself with knowledge. Polyamory:Lola shares with us her journey to a poly life. It's a part of her sexual identity. She explains the difference of being open versus being poly, and types of relationships therein. She touches on the difference between the poly life and swinging as well.  Other books Lola recommended: Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage https://amzn.to/3OGiCli Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond https://amzn.to/3QJDQAK Connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am.  Hello! Welcome to my podcast!  Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adu Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

24 Kesä 20221h 44min

Ep 160: Sexual Favors to Get Out of a Speeding Ticket Erotica Story. Max was driving home from working the night shift at the factory. He was tired. He was exhausted. He was hungry. The only thing he wanted to do was get home and masturbate. He needed to release some stress buildup. It had been a really long night of extremely boring work. The light-up of police car lights behind him sunk his heart. He couldn't get a single break. Officer Lucy Montoe emerged from the police car like a svelte goddess in her black uniform. Her demeanor was domineering and commanding, making Max's cock fill as she talked to him through his car window. He hadn't realized he had a humiliation kink until watching femdom porn made him come. This police officer oozed all the makings of what his fantasies were made of. He knew he was in big trouble, but he also knew this officer turned him the fuck on. She offered a deal. Sexual favors for her in order for her to let him go scot-free without a speeding ticket fine. What Max was pleasantly shocked by was that not only was he going to get out of paying a ticket, he was getting the promise of sex. And the beautiful caveat was, that she wanted it more. Listen to this fantasy come to life hot erotic story that I spun off the top of my head. Adhoc improv style erotic storytelling I created on the spot from a small little three-point outline. I hope you enjoy it! This story is now a novella! Get it here: https://books2read.com/u/bWEXBM and here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3pcRIah Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! love, Ruan Sign up to join my newsletter here: https: Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Kesä 202244min

Ep 159: Sensational Tease Kinky Sex Scene Lala's Bedtime Tales Erotica, Sex, & Pleasure Talk and Interview. Lala Loves is a podcaster with Lala's Bedtime Tales & an erotica author. Lala reads a hot and spicy excerpt of her erotica story where a pop star is tied up by her lover for kinky sex, then they engage in exhibitionism. What's the story about? A Sensational Tease:  Eden Park is back in a place she never wanted to see again, her hometown. She's a rising pop star that had to leave her tour early to deal with family affairs. While back home in St. Louis, she becomes smitten with a sexy as sin attorney. He's a cruel, egotistical man, but there's no denying the sexual tension and attraction between them. Eden will stop at nothing to snag a spot in this hottie's bed. But, what all is she willing to lose to satiate her sexual desires?  Check out her podcast to hear her read the whole story. https://lalasbedtimetaleseroticstories.buzzsprout.com/ Lala and I have a hot chat about the benefits of erotica, how it's beneficial to all people and what readers can get from it. We talk about women and the benefits and learning potential of reading erotica and using sex toys for solo play and with a partner. Sex toys are wonderful for couples as well. We touch on sexuality and how we need more reproductive education for women. Lala shares her views on the sex-ed needs of people of color both culturally and socially, including how the black community needs more discussion in relation to sex. She also talked about the over-sexualization of black women throughout history and how this has been harmful to black women's sexual health. There's a great need to address sexual health discussion for black women. Lala shares information about how her podcast is female-friendly, sex-positive, and educational in addition to her reading arousing sexy erotic stories.  She focuses on helping women take control and ownership of their sexy. She provides a free self-pleasure tracker to help women and their partners to help them learn about each other sexually and discuss their needs and wants. It's a great tool! Lala gives us hints about her erotica coming out soon as well. To connect with Lala, visit her website at https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/ The book Lala talked about Pussy: A Reclamation (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3tCx0CX Thank you for coming on my podcast Lala! It was a pleasure to host you! Connect with the podcast host Ruan at: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow   Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me herel: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! love, Ruan Check out Ruan's newest book: Ruan's Beac Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

17 Kesä 20221h 7min

Ep 158: MILF Gives a Blow Job Erotica Story. Ruan gives her younger lover Sebastian a blow job before they are going to walk along the beach. In this excerpt from Ruan's Beach Getaway, Ruan and Sebastian just had sex and are enjoying the afterglow of their amazing fuck. They have plans for the day but don't make it out of the beach house before engaging in another sex act, because they just can't help themselves! They are both so hot and horny for each other that they can't keep their hands, or their mouths, off of each other. Did you catch the previous podcast episode where they have sex? If not, visit this episode to hear about how hot their reunion sex was: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10787371-milf-ruan-her-younger-lover-at-the-beach-in-ruan-s-beach-getaway In this erotic romance, which is filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean. This book contains spicy age gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts. Podcast merchandise! Get shirts with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My website: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sign up to join my newsletter (I give away free erotica and erotic audiobooks every month!) here: https://mailchi.mp/24862e3a8ec9/authorruanwillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essenti Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Kesä 202228min

Ep 157: MILF Ruan & Her Younger Lover at the Beach in Ruan's Beach Getaway. Listen to me read the first chapter of my erotica novel. In this erotic romance, which is filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean. Here's the book blurb: Ruan and Sebastian are hitting the beach this time for their romantic getaway. Last time the couple stayed the weekend at a cabin in the mountains and christened every room with their sexual experimentation. The beach gives them new inspiration for their affair and for their libidos. They've each brought paraphernalia to surprise each other. Their lust rages high, but their emotions do too. Although their age difference doesn't impact them in the bedroom, their relationship is proving to be more than a simple issue of mutual attraction. Their goal is always to satisfy each other's sexual needs, wants, and desires, but there are strong feelings brewing on both sides that throw the getaway into something beyond sex. Blending their lust is easy, but their emotions prove to be more of a storm than just a lovely day at the beach. This book contains spicy age gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts. Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening! Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Visit the website to find more sexy podcasts to listen to! My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here at well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! love, Ruan Ruan's other Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Kesä 202237min

Ep 156: Let Me Seduce You: For Men Guided Pleasure, The Sexual Bucket List Episode 12. Did you listen to episode 155 where you got to be my Dom and tell me when to touch a toy to my clit? Well, this is the flip side where I'm seducing you, guiding you, dominating you by telling you what to do, when to touch yourself, and when you get sexual pleasure. In this joi-inspired Sexual Bucket List date, we enjoy each other. I dance, strip, seduce you, tell you what to do, and then we enjoy mutual masturbation, edging the fuck out of each other. I ride you cowgirl then the reverse to the yummy delicious finish of both! Get your ride on and let me seduce you! You deserve self care. Looking for the rest of The Sexual Bucket Lust List series? Check out this playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1hzeldaHzbdsSsd22HF5eL?si=84UdDCrVTBW_f4ZfUtsATg Get all my links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow New book!MILF story age gap Ruan's Beach Getaway. Get it here: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d Get the first book where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup. Access more information here: https://fullswapradio.com/ Visit the website to find more sexy podcasts to listen to! My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. You can find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! love, Ruan Ruan's books: Find my new novella, book 2 in The Sex Challenge Series, The Grocery Store Sex Challenge, on the Amazon (affiliate):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes:  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Kesä 202225min

Ep 155: Orgasm Permission Control Be My Pleasure Dom, The Sexual Bucket List Episode 11. Come along on this fun sexual escapade where you get to play the role of my Pleasure Dom and tell me when to put the toy to my clit and when to remove it, and you get to decide when I climax. I have to beg. This is a short but steamy sexy episode. Enjoy! Want more of Ruan Willow? Go here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate link to the Zumio toy referenced in this episode: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup. Access more information here: https://fullswapradio.com/ Visit the website to find more sexy podcasts to listen to! My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. You can find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ My new book Ruan's Beach Getaway is in presale on online sellers here: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d and on Amazon here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Want the other Sexual Bucket list episodes? I have playlists on Spotify. Here's the Sexual Bucket list, all 11 episodes (and counting): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1hzeldaHzbdsSsd22HF5eL?si=84UdDCrVTBW_f4ZfUtsATg Check out my other playlists on Spotify! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. love, Ruan Ruan's books: Find my new novella, book 2 in The Sex Challenge Series, The Grocery Store Sex Challenge, on the Amazon (affiliate):  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 MILF age gap erotic weekend getaway story: Ruan's Cabin Getaway (affiliate): https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 On Apple Books and Kobo: https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Announcing the second book, Ruan's Beach Getaway: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, profes Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Kesä 202217min

Ep 154: Real People Sex Confessions, A Sexy Chat with Podcaster Dear Nikky. Everyone this is an epic interview with the amazing podcaster Dear Nikky,  who not only hosts a very popular amazing award-winning real people sex confessions podcast & she's also a US and International best-selling author, but also she's a kickass awesome sexy babe as well! I was so honored when Dear Nikky agreed to be on my podcast because it's a rare thing for her to do, but let me tell you, I'm so thrilled she agreed to chat with me because I had an absolute blast talking with her about sex, sex toys, sex culture, relationships, sex, confessions, more sex, podcasting, and SECKS!!! Did you notice I mentioned we talked about sex? LOL! We had a blast! Check out our amazing fun chat and definitely don't miss out on her thoroughly entertaining, titillating (had to use this word you know),  spectacular, amazing sexy fun podcast Dear Nikky. Free on podcast apps. And don't forget, you could send in your sex story too and have Dear Nikky read your story anonymously on the podcast. How delicious will it be to sit and listen to your story be told to the world as everyone listening, including yourself, might be getting off to your hot saucy sexy steamy amazing yummy sexual confession/secret! Go do it! Information on how to submit on her website. Link below. Connect with Nikky here: https://www.dearnikky.com/ Her podcast can be accessed through her site as well. Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You book (all book links affiliate)  https://amzn.to/3MbsbHf Twitter: http://twitter.com/DNikky162 Instagram: http://instagram.com/dnikky162 Thank you for sharing your epic self with me and my listeners Nikky!!! All of Ruan's links: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. love, Ruan Ruan's books: Find my new novella, book 2 in The Sex Challenge Series, The Grocery Store Sex Challenge, on the US store of Amazon (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3LkVBTO Universal link to purchase the book from anywhere in the world: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/ff8ae6fa-ba63-11ec-ad4c-531d9ca079d8 MILF age gap erotic weekend getaway story: Ruan's Cabin Getaway (affiliate): https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2  On Apple Books and Kobo: https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Announcing the second book, Ruan's Beach Getaway: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman lovi Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Kesä 20221h 49min