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Ep 472:  A deep dive into the realms of pleasure, fetishes, and neuroscience with orgasm and neuro-pleasure coach Wendy Perkins of Owning Your O. Discover the fascinating science behind taboo arousal, the biological processes that shape our fetishes, and how our early experiences influence our sexual preferences. Wendy shares her journey of sexual exploration, her extensive research, and her unique insights from working in a BDSM dungeon. This episode is packed with enlightening discussions on how to regulate your nervous system, the importance of understanding your body, and breaking free from societal shame around sexuality. Whether you're curious about fetishes, BDSM, or simply want to understand more about your own pleasure pathways, this conversation is a must-listen! Connect with Wendy: http://owningyouro.com/ Yoni Dearmouring https://owningyouro.com/product/yoni-dearmouring/ BDSM & Trauma https://owningyouro.com/product/bdsm-trauma/ 00:01:12 Fetish, explains the neuroscience behind taboo arousal 00:01:54 When I separated from my husband seven years ago, I could not find information about pleasure 00:08:16 article about how fetishes develop based on science 00:12:56 By 7, most people have these systems turned on. So that system that turns on is the logical processing 00:17:17 People end up feeling ashamed about some of their fetishes 00:24:34 The sexual arousal that women experience is more tied to internal thought processes 00:33:48 As kids, we're taught to change our behavior to make others happy 00:36:54 One of the most important places to regulate your emotions is in relationships 00:41:28 People need to break the people pleasing behaviors in relationships 00:45:53 Narcissism gets this really bad rap because it's protective 00:49:04 BDSM helps people regulate their nervous system 00:52:15 One way to learn about women's orgasms is to use sex toys 00:55:09 ADHD Show notes created by https://headliner.app 🗣️ Quotes from Wendy "Fetishes are not some weird abnormality. The only thing that makes something a fetish versus something society accepts is whether society accepts it." "Once you get rid of the shame around your fetish, you realize it's just a biological function." "BDSM, when done well and safely, is one of the most beautiful tools to help people regulate their nervous system." "Helping people learn how to regulate and create safety in themselves is astronomical for what it does for your life." 🗣️ Quotes from Ruan Willow "Are we ashamed that we get hungry? Of course not. But somehow with sex..." Topics: Orgasm Coaching, Neuro Pleasure, Taboo Arousal, Fetish Neuroscience, Bdsm Education, Sexual Exploration, Women's Pleasure, Clitoral Anatomy, Sexual Health Research, Fetish Origins, Sexual Trauma, Body Positivity, Sensory Motor Network, Dopamine And Adhd, Bdsm Safety, Pelvic Floor Health, Sexual Shame, Relationship Communication, Nervous System Regulation, Sexual Empowerment, mental health Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Kesä 20241h 2min

Ep 470:  NSFW Layla's Pussy Store, Spring Break and Stranded with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men, Layla Gets Raunchy: Book 2, Chapter 2. The college aged erotic multiple partner self declared freeuse story continues. Layla, the only woman in a cabin of 8 men, decides she wants to play a sex game of a pussy store.  At her store, the men must offer something to her. If she accepts their offering and agrees to the barter, consensual sex occurs, but it can't be money. Nope! Then there's Charlie, her best friend's twin brother. Charlie is acting sullen, often his usual demeanor, but Layla wants to know why, perhaps it's because his older brother Heath's hand was on her thigh when he came into the cabin after his hike. Either way, she'd determined to find out and bring him back to a level of happiness. She knows just how to do it too, with her sexual guiles. He ends up being the first customer for her store...THEN stay tuned for the next installment where the rest of men visit Layla's open store of pleasure. Enjoy this erotica fiction, erotic romance smutty story with an underlying storyline of romance with a love triangle growing between Layla and the two brothers, Charlie and Heath. Layla has found herself at a cabin with all men while her best friend is stuck sick at a hotel. Being the only female in the cabin with a bunch of horny men just as sexually adventurous as she is, she's going all out and declared her empowerment to explore her sexuality in ways she never has before, shedding cultural norms around sex and just letting loose! A story of relationships where indulgence is optimal, and pleasure is maximal, and everyone is doing attaining fantasy entertainment and fulfilment. Book 2, ch 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/15194555 Check out Ruan Willow's recent book releases: In Audiobook, Filthy Fiction: Volume 1 Dirty Daydreams, written by Casey Donatello, a hotwife IRL, podcaster, and author: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreams Servicing the College Fence Builders, A Age Gap Hotwife Story in audiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthecollegefencebuildersaudiobook and ebook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthecollegefencebuildersanagegaphotwifestory Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Anderson Comes Home: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/andersoncomeshome Workplace Threesomes on Smashwords: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/workplacethreesomes Same book as above with a different cover: Group Fun at Work: Spicy Unions of Three https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/groupfunatworkspicyhotunionsofthree Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

25 Kesä 202436min

EP 468: Regency Romance & Steamy Spicy Excerpt plus Author Interview with Stacia Kaywood, excerpt narrated by the author herself!  In this episode, join Ruan Willow as she welcomes the multi-talented author Stacia Kaywood, who delves into various realms of romantic fiction, from historical to paranormal to contemporary, always with a spicy twist. Stacia shares an intense excerpt from her upcoming Regency romance, "Stealing Annabelle," book release in summer of 2024, along with a fun and engaging interview. Stacia is a versatile author who refuses to be confined to a single genre. Her debut novel, "Bathed in Moonlight," is a historical romance set at the end of World War II. She has also written short stories available on Medium, including "Haunting Jasmine," which features a mystery and a sexy ghost. Stacia resides in Kansas City, Missouri, and is an avid reader and traveler, drawing inspiration from art, architecture, and real-life stories. Episode Highlights- Stacia reads a sultry excerpt from "Stealing Annabelle" that will leave you breathless. - A deep dive into Stacia's writing process, inspirations, and how she navigates different genres. - Insightful discussion about the importance of reader feedback and the challenges of writing historical romance. - Ruan and Stacia discuss the nuances of writing erotic romance and the joy of creating steamy scenes. 02:19 17:42 18:22 19:28 22:09 23:57 25:09 26:25 27:04 30:59 33:01 37:19 42:49 50:59 54:13   Find Stacia on all major platforms at @StaciaKaywood Check out her website https://staciakaywood.com/ Bathed in Moonlight https://books2read.com/u/bwrXYe (Affiliate link, commission may be earned, thank you for the support) https://amzn.to/4cdykAw In Portuguese (Banhada em luar available on Apple books https://books.apple.com/us/book/banhada-em-luar/id6450006274) Spanish (Bañada por la luz de la luna) https://amzn.to/3KQRccN Ruan's Books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Kesä 202459min

Ep 465: An age gap erotic fiction story episode, hot sexy storytelling! This story is a part of The Work Threesomes Series, and it's called On the Farm Threesome: The Young Farm Hand, The Pastor, and the Baker. Gastone has turned 18 and he's had a crush on the 20 year old baker Olga for quite some time. He works hard on his family's farm and when Olga was hired as a baker, he was ecstatic. He thought long and hard about asking her out on a date. But before he gets to spill his question, Pastor Jeff stops in to see Olga for a visit. What Jeff finds them doing after he's carried in the freshly picked strawberries shocks him. But he doesn't stay dumbfounded for long because Olga wants him too! Enjoy this erotica fiction, erotic romance entertainment arts episode to enjoy and expand your self care and relaxation time. Listen to the other stories in this series: Working the Maid MMF https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/14987451 Backroom Threesome at the Diner MMF https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/14943814 BBC at the Hospital: An Interracial Threesome, Just What the Doctor Ordered https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/15029497 Ruan's new releases: Filthy Fiction: Volume 1, Dirty Daydreams Written by hotwife irl Casey Donatello, and narrated by Ruan Willow. Find it here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreams Servicing the College Fence Builders, An Age Gap Hotwife Story audiobook:  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthecollegefencebuildersaudiobook Book 7 in the Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures Series, Anderson Comes Home, a throuple hotwife story, age gap, later in life marriage story https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/andersoncomeshome Get all of the first five novellas of the series in book 6 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Leave Ruan a voice message on Speakpipe and get a voice message back from Ruan: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Get FREE shipping on orders over $60 of Tracy's Dog toys, Ruan loves these products! (affiliate link, commission may be earned which supports this podcast. Thank you!) https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=2394624&u=3101443&m=114935&urllink=&afftrack= Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Kesä 202435min

Ep 464:  A hot and steamy bathtime turns into a paranormal power play time for Jessie when an ordinary rubber duckie transforms into a magical sex toy all on its very own... enjoy the surreal erotica story of magical realism fiction, written by author Frank Noir, narrated by Ruan Willow. It's kinky and fun! Explore your sexuality, expand your boundaries, and enrich your relationships through listening to erotic fiction! Then stay for the author interview! Thrilled to have Frank Noir on the podcast, an erotica author of Scandinavian descent, currently residing in Berlin, Germany. His writings are graphically sexual, embracing the darker side of carnal urges with hard yet sensual tales of submission and guilty pleasures. Find Frank Noir's ebooks on Amazon, Kindle, iTunes, iBooks, Barnes & Noble Nook, and Smashwords. Visit his website at Official website: franknoir.com Amazon author page: amazon.com/author/franknoir In this episode, Ruan narrates a full story by Frank Noir titled "Rubber Duckie," a supernatural and highly erotic tale that will leave your senses tingling. After the story, Ruan and Frank have an engaging interview about writing erotica, the creative process, and their personal experiences and insights into the world of erotic literature. Frank Noir's book Dirty Cops (affiliate link, podcast may receive a small commission from purchases, which support this podcast, thank you!) https://amzn.to/4bZTC4G Quotes from Frank Noir: "The stories of Frank Noir are graphically sexual, daring to embrace the darker side of our carnal urges, hard yet sensual tales of submission and guilty pleasures." "I think the short story format is perfect for erotica. It's quite difficult to do a plot that makes sense, that also gives way to as many sex scenes as I like to write." "I think it's fun to push your own boundaries a bit and imagine things that you may not be into." "I always divide the story into chapters in the outline so I know what happens where. Which means when I get stuck in one chapter, I can start work on another one." Explore Ruan's books: Books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Wicked & Spicy Tales: erotic magical paranormal and erotic horror fiction short story collection https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales Ruan's Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruan Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures bundle of books 1-5 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Kesä 20241h 16min

Episode 462: Embracing Self-Love and Masturbation: A Sensual Journey, an 18+ ONLY episode.  This is an improv erotic journey off the top of Ruan's head. Immerse yourself in her sharing her highly sexual brain with you, including discussion and pep talk. Want access to the story only? Subscribe: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe "My Clit is my window to my climax." In this steamy episode, Ruan Willow dives into the often taboo yet universally experienced act of masturbation. She explores the mental and physical pleasures of self-love, encouraging listeners to embrace their bodies and fantasies without shame. Ruan shares a vivid, erotic scenario of a woman indulging in self-pleasure, highlighting how masturbation can enhance intimacy with partners by teaching us more about our own bodies. Ruan's narrative is both instructional and tantalizing, offering tips on using toys, hands, and even household items to achieve sexual satisfaction. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and the positive impact it has on our overall well-being, urging listeners to explore their desires freely and without guilt. This episode is a celebration of sexual self-discovery and the joy it brings. Ruan's passionate storytelling and candid advice make for an empowering and arousing listen. Perfect for nurturing self care, sexual health, and mental health for all humans. 00:00:18 " Thinking about Masturbation is an aphrodisiac in and of itself 00:03:16 " Your sexual organs are there for you to use and enjoy. You can use your body for pleasure, do it today and as often as desired to feel amazing, relieve stress, connect with yourself and your partner, fabulous sleep aid 00:10:04 " M oh, it's so arousing to spend time with my lover...fantasize your heart out! 00:12:53 " We rolled together, amorous, our voluptuous curves curling... 00:18:26 " Sucking. Moving my tongue all over, sucking as hard as I can... 00:24:10 " Aftercare is enjoying the wonderful hormones that, we've given each other. Sleep after climax is fabulous aftercare for yourself. Topics covered: Masturbation  Self-Love Sexual Health Self-Care Erotic Fiction Fantasy Intimacy Consent Sexual Exploration Sexual Wellness Pleasure Sexual Empowerment Female Sexuality Orgasm Sensuality Sexual Fantasies Pillow Humping Erotic Storytelling Sexual Arousal Explore Ruan's Books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Wicked & Spicy Tales: erotic magical paranormal and erotic horror fiction https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales Ruan's Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruan Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures  https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Kesä 202431min

Episode 461: Embracing Self-Love and Masturbation: A Sensual Journey, an 18+ ONLY episode.  Subscribers can enjoy an erotic romance fiction ad free experience, free flowing content without interruptions.  This is an improv erotic journey off the top of Ruan's head. Immerse yourself in her sharing her highly sexual brain with you. Join today! In this steamy episode, Ruan Willow dives into the often taboo yet universally experienced act of masturbation. She explores the mental and physical pleasures of self-love, encouraging listeners to embrace their bodies and fantasies without shame. Ruan shares a vivid, erotic scenario of a woman indulging in self-pleasure, highlighting how masturbation can enhance intimacy with partners by teaching us more about our own bodies. Ruan's narrative is both instructional and tantalizing, offering tips on using toys, hands, and even household items to achieve sexual satisfaction. She emphasizes the importance of self-care and the positive impact it has on our overall well-being, urging listeners to explore their desires freely and without guilt. This episode is a celebration of sexual self-discovery and the joy it brings. Ruan's passionate storytelling and candid advice make for an empowering and arousing listen. Perfect for nurturing self care, sexual health, and mental health for all humans. 00:00:00 " This podcast is for people who are 18 and older 00:00:18 " Thinking about Masturbation is an aphrodisiac in and of itself 00:03:16 " Your sexual organs are there for you to use and enjoy. You can use your body for pleasure, do it today and as often as desired to feel amazing, relieve stress, connect with yourself and your partner, fabulous sleep aid 00:10:04 " M oh, it's so arousing to spend time with my lover...fantasize your heart out! 00:12:53 " We rolled together, amorous, our voluptuous curves curling... 00:18:26 " Sucking. Moving my tongue all over, sucking as hard as I can... 00:24:10 " Aftercare is enjoying the wonderful hormones that, we've given each other. Sleep after climax is fabulous aftercare for yourself. Topics covered: Masturbation  Self-Love Sexual Health Self-Care Sex Toys Erotic Fiction Fantasy Intimacy, Consent Sexual Exploration Sexual Wellness Pleasure Sexual Empowerment Female Sexuality Orgasm Sensuality Sexual Fantasies Pillow Humping Erotic Storytelling Sexual Arousal Explore Ruan's books: Books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Wicked & Spicy Tales: erotic magical paranormal and erotic horror fiction short story collection https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales Ruan's Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruan Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures book bundle of books 1-5 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Kesä 202422min

Ep 459: Exploring Kink, Power, and Gender in Erotic Writing with Writer and Educator Auntie Vice, who is a writer, blogger, kink scene connoisseur, kink and BDSM educator, and performer.  Plus, listeners can also enjoy the narration by Ruan Willow of Auntie Vice's written piece 'Private Parking'. In this intriguing episode, Ruan Willow sits down with the multifaceted Rebecca Blanton, also known as Auntie Vice. They dive into the world of erotic writing, kink education, and the interesting journey of transitioning from policy writing to becoming an erotica author. Auntie Vice, a writer and kink educator with a PhD in political psychology, shares her unique insights on gender, power, and BDSM. Tune in to discover how Auntie Vice overcame severe dyslexia and living with disabilities to become a celebrated author and educator, and the fascinating interplay between realism and fantasy in erotic fiction. From discussing the ethics of ghostwriting to the joys of character development and dialogue, this episode is packed with valuable insights for aspiring writers and kink enthusiasts alike. Topics of discussion include: Bdsm Kink Education Erotic Writing Gender and Power BDSM Scene Political Psychology Stand-Up Comedy Storytelling Feminism Ghostwriting Erotic Fiction Queer Representation Body Positivity Disability Rights Erotic Novels Shapeshifter Fiction Sci-Fi Erotica Lgbtq+ Authors Submissive Training Erotic Publishing Find more about the podcast guest Auntie Vice: http://www.auntievice.com/ https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/home Book: Love Letters to a Unicorn: A Book about Kink, BDSM, Non-monogamy https://amzn.to/3XcWK8A Fat Chicks on Top Podcast: https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/fat-chicks-on-top Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Wicked & Spicy Tales: erotic magical paranormal and erotic horror fiction short story collection https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytales Ruan's Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/audiobooksnarratedbyruan Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures book bundle of books 1-5 https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Kesä 20241h 11min