Why Boundaries Matter in Sex and Love with Heather Claus aka Nookie

Why Boundaries Matter in Sex and Love with Heather Claus aka Nookie

Ep 345 total of 345, season 3: Why Boundaries Matter in Sex and Love with Heather Claus aka Nookie. She is a coach, author, and educator. She just released a book (Take No Shit) about how to create better relationships with others and yourself. And yup, it involves boundaries! We discussed sexual and emotional boundaries and the importance of knowing your personal boundaries to protect yourself (and this includes potentially protecting yourself from abuse). We talked about our sexuality and who owns it? Do you own your own sexuality? Or is another enforcing unwanted boundaries on you? Or is it the media, society, or culture that influences you rather than a person enforcing boundaries on you? We also talked about the shame and guilt that often surrounds sex in the United States (and other parts of the world too, of course). She pointed out that one of the best ways to manipulate people is to try inducing guilt and shame in them. She shared that she doesn't compromise herself in relationships, there might be negotiation, but she doesn't necessarily mean compromise, and how this created lots of backlash and anger when she declared it on social media one time, which is quite interesting. She created a website and app for Dating Kinky (for kink, love, sex, and those seeking alternative lifestyles) and curiouser.life (which is more mainstream).

Connect with Heather, aka Miss Nookie, a longtime writer/educator in the world of love, sex, romance, and kink, and the founder of Dating Kinky/Curiouser, a website dedicated to fostering connections among its user and providing education.: https://my.curiouser.life/
http://datingkinky.com/
https://twitter.com/DatingKinky
First published on PodNation TV, then YouTube https://youtu.be/mSASIsK5sNg?si=cbVmJ94eiVwLoEu-

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Ep: 3 Valentine's Day Gift Ideas, sex toy reviews, massage oil, & experiences

Ep: 3 Valentine's Day Gift Ideas, sex toy reviews, massage oil, & experiences

Welcome to the Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow podcast! Ruan  Willow is an erotica author and today she shares her ideas for gifts on Valentine's Day including sex toys (sex toy reviews), massage oil, lube suggestions, and ideas for fun experiences. Experiences as gifts for couples this Valentine's day; they are fabulous ways to celebrate love, enhance sexual intimacy, and to help romance bloom.  Grow your own relationship by considering these great gift ideas for lovers, for couples. This podcast can also be found in written form with links to toys at this blog post: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sex-gifts-for-valentines-day/ Help romance and love flourish in your life. Check out these helpful reviews of sex toys to improve your sexual health and that of your partner. For a full review of the Nora Lovense toy, click here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/rabbit-vibrator-lovense-nora-review/ To read Ruan's review of the Lush 2 toy by Lovense, click here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/lush-sex-toy-review-remote-controlled-vibrator/ To read the rose clitoris sucker review, please click here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/rose-vibrator-clit-sucker/ I hope you have found my gift ideas helpful and that they enhance your intimacy, your relationship, and your sexual health. Sexuality and couple intimacy are important aspects of a relationship, so pay attention to them and nurture both in yourself and in your partner. Happy Valentine's Day! Love, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Helmi 202135min

Ep 2: Ruan reads an excerpt from her Sucking Nipples at The Licking Sip Coffee Shop short story

Ep 2: Ruan reads an excerpt from her Sucking Nipples at The Licking Sip Coffee Shop short story

Episode 2:  (18+) Ruan reads an excerpt from her Sucking Nipples at The Licking Sip Coffee Shop short story which can be found in its entirety on her website at https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ This is a sexy short story in the genre of erotica that Ruan has published on her website. This story grew out of her own personal fantasy she dreamt up from years ago...it has given her much pleasure! Now, she wants to share that pleasure with you. In this episode, she reads the sex scene between the head waitress and a coffee shop patron. The days heats up quick for head waitress Lana when a young stud walks into the shop and chooses her. He gifts an epic sexual experience to Lana that also deeply pleases him, among others. Read this to get hot and hotter and scorching hot with Lana as she reaches into her fantasy world to get real epic stellar phenomenal orgasms. Let's just say all enjoy this intimate display, but of course, not as much the couple. Listen to Ruan and feel her heat, enjoy your immersion into all things Ruan hot! Ready? Let's do it! Oh, f*ck yeah! With Ruan Willow. And please. Don't forget to subscribe if you don't want to miss an episode. Also, she loves reviews of all kinds. Please leave a review so she can grow as an author and an artist. Have a very sexy day! Thanks for listening! Catch Ruan on Twitter, X, Instagram, Threads, YouTube, Bluesky. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

29 Tammi 202136min

Ep 1: Welcome to Oh F*ck Yeah by erotica author Ruan Willow

Ep 1: Welcome to Oh F*ck Yeah by erotica author Ruan Willow

Episode 1: This podcast is for 18+ only. Welcome to Ruan's podcast! In this very first episode erotica author Ruan Willow talks about what her show will be about including sexy steamy hot readings, erotic short story excerpts, sex toy reviews, sex topics such as tips and ideas to improve your sexuality, both solo and with a partner, as well as erotica author interviews. In this first episode, she talks about fantasies, per request from people on Twitter, and she reads short erotic scene snippets and erotic poems. On Twitter, she is RaunchyIs and Ruan Willow. Interact with her there or on Instagram, MeWe, YouTube, Tik Tok, and Pinterest. You can read her erotic short stories on her website https://ruanwillowauthor.com Ruan on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RuanWillow Twitter: http://twitter.com/RaunchyIs http://twitter.com/RuanWillow All Ruan's links to books, social media, and more! https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Have a very sexy day! Thanks for listening! Love, Ruan Please follow my podcast so you don't miss a single episode, so much more to come! Want to support me and my podcast, and get extras? Join my Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Tammi 202124min

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