134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

134. Creating secure responses to avoidant behaviour

Do you have a partner or friend that exhibits some of the signs of an avoidant attachment style? And do you find your own anxiety being triggered by their behaviour - resulting in a push-pull cycle - where both people feel frustrated and disconnected? You're certainly not alone with this. And in today's episode, I'm teaching you how to manage your OWN mind and create a secure response to avoidant behaviour. So that you can feel calm and grounded, regardless of what's going on for them - and a...

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20. Dealing with other people's manuals for us (people pleasing)

20. Dealing with other people's manuals for us (people pleasing)

Do you find yourself feeling anxious when you want to do something you know someone else won't be happy about?Do you feel like you're constantly trying to 'keep everyone happy' at the expense of what ...

27 Tammi 202325min

19. Do they care enough?

19. Do they care enough?

Are you constantly finding yourself debating whether your partner or friends care ENOUGH.If so, tune into this episode!We'll be discussing the anxiety behind this question and more empowering question...

20 Tammi 202318min

18. 4 steps to STOP taking things personally

18. 4 steps to STOP taking things personally

Do you often hear people say 'Don't take it personally'... but struggle to take it anything BUT personally? Do you find yourself feeling insecure about a lot of things - things people say, do, and p...

13 Tammi 202317min

17. Scary 'What if...' thoughts and how to handle them

17. Scary 'What if...' thoughts and how to handle them

Does your brain often offer you terrifying WHAT IF thoughts that leave you spiralling for hours?And does trying to convince yourself that thing won't happen never really work?If so - this episode is f...

6 Tammi 202321min

16. Your brain is NOT a reliable narrator

16. Your brain is NOT a reliable narrator

Did you know that voice in your head is actually not YOU? And did you know that a lot of the time it's actually full of sh*t? In this episode, we talk about the nature of our minds and how being a...

22 Joulu 202222min

15. Getting better at arguing

15. Getting better at arguing

Arguments in relationships happen. But often our primitive brains can create SO much unnecessary drama and disconnection - preventing us from reconnecting and moving forward after a disagreement.In th...

16 Joulu 202224min

14. Comparing yourself to others

14. Comparing yourself to others

Do you find yourself getting stuck in a cycle of comparing yourself to others?Are they prettier? Richer? Funnier?Is there relationship 'better'? Is there partner more romantic?Whatever it is - this ep...

8 Joulu 202217min

13. If it’s not my partner’s job to ‘make me feel good’, what’s the point of relationships?

13. If it’s not my partner’s job to ‘make me feel good’, what’s the point of relationships?

Once we learn that other people don't exist to 'make' us feel good and validate us, some clients tend to ask... 'so if my partner isn't supposed to make me feel secure and validate me, what's the poin...

1 Joulu 202219min

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