3591: How to Downsize Your Life from Negative People by Renee Benes of The Fun Sized Life

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3405: Dr. Lisa Firestone highlights how our emotions, often unconsciously, guide our lives and influence our actions. By distinguishing between primary and secondary emotions, we can better understand ourselves, heal old wounds, and improve our relationships. Embracing and expressing our true emotions can transform them into adaptive tools that lead to deeper self-awareness and fulfillment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/emotions-guide-lives/ Quotes to ponder: "Primary emotion is not the stale resentment. Instead, it is a vital feeling that often leaves the person feeling very open and perhaps vulnerable." "When we live in harmony with our emotions, we become more in touch with who we are." "By focusing on emotion with compassion and curiosity, we can discover who we are and what we want." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Marras 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3404: David Cain explores the notion that the true wealth of life lies in the connections we make with others, rather than in material achievements. By reflecting on missed opportunities for meaningful relationships, he highlights how fear of discomfort often leads us to prioritize safety over genuine connection. Ultimately, he suggests that embracing vulnerability can unlock the deepest sense of fulfillment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.raptitude.com/2016/03/where-the-wealth-was-all-along/ Quotes to ponder: "By the end of your life, the only thing that seemed relevant was the people you loved, or ended up loving." "There was so much available to you, and it was so much closer than it seemed at the time." "It seems really wonderful that a human life could have contained fifty undeveloped relationships for everyone that was allowed to thrive." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Marras 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3403: Jesse offers a thoughtful exploration of how buying less can pave the way for greater happiness, financial freedom, and a simpler, more meaningful life. By shifting focus from accumulating possessions to cherishing experiences, we can gain back time, energy, and a deeper sense of fulfillment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://bemorewithless.com/buyless-2/ Quotes to ponder: "Instead of chasing more, maybe we should start appreciating what we already have." "Buying less is not about deprivation. It's about making space for the things that truly matter." "When we stop filling the void with stuff, we discover what was missing was never something we could buy." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3402: Independent thinking, as explored by Ali Cornish, empowers us to break free from societal pressures and embrace a more authentic life. By challenging assumptions and questioning the status quo, we can align our choices with our true values. This piece offers actionable advice to nurture a mindset rooted in self-awareness and genuine independence. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.wantless.co.uk/case-independent-thinking/ Quotes to ponder: "Independent thinking is not just about rejecting mainstream beliefs; it’s about questioning why we hold any belief at all." "True freedom lies not in rebelling against the norm, but in understanding your own motivations and desires." "When we stop blindly following the crowd, we open up the possibility of truly original thinking." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3401: In their journey toward frugality and minimalism, Jaime and their partner realized that chasing small, fleeting luxuries was keeping them from achieving their true dreams. By cutting back on impulse purchases, they unlocked the freedom to travel, reduce their work schedule, and prioritize lasting happiness. It's not about deprivation - it's about mastering priorities to live the life you truly deserve. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.keepthrifty.com/stop-depriving-yourself/ Quotes to ponder: "Convincing you that you deserve the little luxuries is the ultimate Jedi mind trick from the dark side of the force." "The frugal and minimalist aren’t masters of deprivation - they are masters of prioritization and masters of self." "If we can live by that question, we can start to find joy in what we have and see the path to the future we want." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3400: Finding your voice can be challenging, but Molly Fletcher offers actionable techniques for overcoming fears that often hold us back from speaking up. From reframing the fear of rejection to practicing self-respect in group settings, Fletcher provides practical steps to cultivate confidence, self-worth, and assertiveness in any environment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://mollyfletcher.com/lose-your-fear/ Quotes to ponder: "Fear of rejection is real. It is a script that runs in our head, and I’m very familiar with it." "Stick to your important message and continue working to connect, share, and listen to the people on your team." "Your fear can be a signal to do more than work on yourself. It may be time to change your surroundings." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Marras 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3399: In this insightful article, Tynan explores the powerful concept of planning for "can't-fail" days, where setting minimal yet essential goals ensures progress even on your toughest days. By focusing on achievable actions, Tynan demonstrates how anyone can maintain momentum and build resilience without overwhelming themselves, making consistent personal growth possible. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tynan.com/cantfail/ Quotes to ponder: "Sometimes it’s better to make a little bit of progress every single day than to push hard and burn out." "A can't-fail day is one where you set the bar so low that you can get over it, no matter what." "If you string together enough can’t-fail days, you’ll find yourself getting further than you’d expect." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

22 Marras 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3398: Joel from 5AMJoel.com shares how facing fears - like surfing in the dark with imagined "sharks" around can mirror the anxiety of stepping into new situations, from big life changes to intimidating jobs. By confronting fear and pushing forward, we often find support, beauty, and accomplishment in unexpected places. His advice? Embrace discomfort, tackle challenges one small step at a time, and recognize that most “sharks” are just harmless illusions. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://5amjoel.com/sharks/ & https://5amjoel.com/how-do-you-eat-an-elephant/ Quotes to ponder: "The universe is not against you. Most ‘sharks’ are just dolphins and seals." "Run towards the stuff that scares the shit out of you. Recognize your fear, respect it, then move forward anyway." "How do you eat an elephant? 1 bite at a time." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Marras 20249min