S13 Ep. 9: His Needs Come First, Post-Menopause Male Loneliness, and How Important is Smell?

S13 Ep. 9: His Needs Come First, Post-Menopause Male Loneliness, and How Important is Smell?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I’m a woman who has no problem having an orgasm on her own, but it happens rarely with my partner. I’ve told him how I want to be stimulated, but sex always feels like something that’s done to satisfy his needs and mine are an afterthought. He knows I don’t orgasm through intercourse, but still asks me every single time if I have. When I say no, he begrudgingly gives me oral sex or uses his fingers, but it’s half-hearted because he’s had his orgasm. I’m feeling increasingly resentful. How do I tackle this?


2) My wife and I are in our late 60s, fit and healthy, and have been happily married for 40 years. Sex has always been a small part of our marriage, but it was adventurous and good. Since menopause, which she seemed to sail through, both sex and intimacy have disappeared. We talk about it now and then, but nothing happens. I don't necessarily want penetrative sex, I just miss holding her and showing her I love her rather than just saying it. I feel lonely.


3) I'm a straight woman in my 30s and recently met an amazing guy. I ended it because of his smell. He doesn’t smell bad, just like he has a different chemistry to me. My gut said not to go there. Am I right to pay attention to this? Is it something that you can work with or get past, and how?


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S11 Ep. 2: Menopause and Sex, I Hate Being Polyamorous, and How to Build Sexual Confidence as a Young Man

S11 Ep. 2: Menopause and Sex, I Hate Being Polyamorous, and How to Build Sexual Confidence as a Young Man

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I'm a 50-year-old man from Amsterdam and a loyal listener to your podcast. I'm married to a wonderful 48-year-old woman, a...

11 Syys 202423min

S11 Ep. 1: Revenge Sex, What's Kinky, and When are Sex Problems Not About Sex?

S11 Ep. 1: Revenge Sex, What's Kinky, and When are Sex Problems Not About Sex?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’m recently back in the dating game and wondering if there are generally accepted definitions of vanilla/non-vanilla? So ...

4 Syys 202417min

S10 Ep. 10: Penis Rings, Romantic Sex, and Female Premature Orgasms

S10 Ep. 10: Penis Rings, Romantic Sex, and Female Premature Orgasms

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner is very shy when it comes to talking about sex. He found a sex compatibility quiz which we took as a way to ope...

24 Heinä 202419min

S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?

S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I split with my husband of 14 years and my divorce has just come through. I’m a combination of nervous and excited. The ma...

17 Heinä 202419min

S10 Ep. 8: Shower Sex, Daily Sex, and What to Do When He Gets Stuck

S10 Ep. 8: Shower Sex, Daily Sex, and What to Do When He Gets Stuck

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Even when I've had plenty of foreplay and I'm certain I'm turned on, when my partner first enters me it's like he's stuck ...

10 Heinä 202419min

S10 Ep. 7: WFH Has Stolen My Sex Drive, Scheduled Sex, and Should I Accept My Wife’s Free Pass to Have Sex with Other People?

S10 Ep. 7: WFH Has Stolen My Sex Drive, Scheduled Sex, and Should I Accept My Wife’s Free Pass to Have Sex with Other People?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My girlfriend and I went through a period of not having sex—we were so busy it got forgotten about. We made a point of hav...

3 Heinä 202426min

S10 Ep. 6: Male Bi-Curiosity, I Hate Long-Term Sex, and Why Doesn't My Husband Desire Me Now that I'm Slim?

S10 Ep. 6: Male Bi-Curiosity, I Hate Long-Term Sex, and Why Doesn't My Husband Desire Me Now that I'm Slim?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I’ve lost a lot of weight using Ozempic and am delighted with how my body looks. I feel brand new and—at last—sexy and des...

26 Kesä 202424min

S10 Ep. 5: Strange Sex Sounds, 'Is It In Yet?' and Dating after Divorce

S10 Ep. 5: Strange Sex Sounds, 'Is It In Yet?' and Dating after Divorce

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner makes strange noises during sex and it really puts me off. It’s like a whimpering noise—it sounds exactly like ...

19 Kesä 202420min

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