S13 Ep. 9: His Needs Come First, Post-Menopause Male Loneliness, and How Important is Smell?

S13 Ep. 9: His Needs Come First, Post-Menopause Male Loneliness, and How Important is Smell?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I’m a woman who has no problem having an orgasm on her own, but it happens rarely with my partner. I’ve told him how I want to be stimulated, but sex always feels like something that’s done to satisfy his needs and mine are an afterthought. He knows I don’t orgasm through intercourse, but still asks me every single time if I have. When I say no, he begrudgingly gives me oral sex or uses his fingers, but it’s half-hearted because he’s had his orgasm. I’m feeling increasingly resentful. How do I tackle this?


2) My wife and I are in our late 60s, fit and healthy, and have been happily married for 40 years. Sex has always been a small part of our marriage, but it was adventurous and good. Since menopause, which she seemed to sail through, both sex and intimacy have disappeared. We talk about it now and then, but nothing happens. I don't necessarily want penetrative sex, I just miss holding her and showing her I love her rather than just saying it. I feel lonely.


3) I'm a straight woman in my 30s and recently met an amazing guy. I ended it because of his smell. He doesn’t smell bad, just like he has a different chemistry to me. My gut said not to go there. Am I right to pay attention to this? Is it something that you can work with or get past, and how?


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S10 Ep. 4: Dry Orgasms, Weird Sex Toys, and Same-Sex Skills

S10 Ep. 4: Dry Orgasms, Weird Sex Toys, and Same-Sex Skills

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I think my partner is faking orgasm because when he ejaculates, no semen comes out. The first time it happened, I asked hi...

12 Kesä 202422min

S10 Ep. 3: BDSM Kinks, What to Do if You 'Miss' an Orgasm, and Why Can't I Move On from My Husband's Mid-Life Crisis?

S10 Ep. 3: BDSM Kinks, What to Do if You 'Miss' an Orgasm, and Why Can't I Move On from My Husband's Mid-Life Crisis?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love watching BDSM porn and have a masochistic kink. My wife enjoys sex, but is pretty conservative in what she likes. I...

5 Kesä 202423min

S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm?

S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner of four years has a friend who has opened up their relationship after having been married for nine years. Appar...

29 Touko 202425min

S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises!

S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises!

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My partner’s favorite position is doggy-style in front of a mirror. I hate sex from behind—I like face-to-face positions s...

22 Touko 202428min

S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me

S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) When I first got together with my partner of four years, we had lots of fun tying each other up. That stopped about a year...

17 Huhti 202421min

S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?

S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I feel like your inbox for this podcast is full of questions like mine. I’ve been married for 26 years, and our sex life q...

10 Huhti 202423min

S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire?

S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) My husband and I are each other’s first loves. We’re now twenty years on, 10 years married with a child and I feel at a lo...

3 Huhti 202423min

S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins

S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I love sex and I love the feeling of orgasm, but I’ve never been able to have more than one. Are all women capable of mult...

27 Maalis 202425min

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