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Get up to 10 Free HelloFresh Meals + First Box Ships Free!! Use code HF-0131 and my link https://www.filify.co/SH8CjIn this episode, I’m getting real about dating, intuition, and why raising your standards is the ultimate glow-up. We’re talking red flags, gut feelings you shouldn’t ignore, and how to stop putting men on pedestals they didn’t earn. I’m sharing my take on why it’s not about whether he likes you — it’s about whether you even like him. If you’ve ever found yourself questioning your worth in dating, this is your reminder to trust yourself, protect your peace, and stop settling for crumbs. Let’s talk boundaries, safety, and becoming the version of you that refuses to shrink! Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!Books mentioned:Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft https://amzn.to/3Txid9hThe Gift Of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin De Becker https://amzn.to/4k715CdTakeaways:Raise your standards in dating.Understand the importance of intuition.Recognize red flags and manipulation tactics.Self-respect is crucial in relationships.Practice self-awareness and mindfulness.Modern dating dynamics require careful navigation.Empower yourself through knowledge and education.Prioritize personal growth and self-care.Don't be afraid to say no and set boundaries.Therapy can help in understanding relationship patterns.MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182

[00:00] Introduction: Raising Standards in Dating[01:21] Avoiding Toxic Situations & Guys[02:14] Get 10 Free Meals[03:07] Recognizing Dating Scams & Games[03:52] The Simplicity of Dating[04:47] The Fairy Tale vs. Reality[06:40] Societal Pressure to Settle Down[08:44] Tuning into Your Intuition[09:05] Book Recommendation: The Gift of Fear[11:53] The Science of Intuition[14:50] Signs of Manipulation: Forced Teaming[16:32] Charm as a Verb[20:01] General Tips: Don't Be Timid[23:44] Prioritizing Yourself[25:31] Recognizing Lies & Red Flags[28:47] High Standards & Self-Respect[32:04] Not Tolerating Disrespect[37:37] Communicating Effectively[44:03] Putting Yourself First[47:35] No Contact & Moving On[54:15] Knowing Yourself & Practicing Self-Awareness[59:36] Staying Grounded & Recognizing Red Flags[01:02:51] The Annoyance of Dating[01:06:55] Conclusion: Self-Reflection & Prioritizing Safety#StellaRaePodcast