198: The Recovering Man: Life After Prostate Cancer with Mish Middelmann

198: The Recovering Man: Life After Prostate Cancer with Mish Middelmann

In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Nurse Practitioner and Sexologist Melissa Hadley Barrett chats with Mish Middelmann — a prostate cancer survivor, men’s leadership coach, and founder of The Recovering Man. Mish is also the author of a book about sex beyond erections, called Beyond Erections - reclaiming sexual pleasure and intimacy with erectile differences.

Diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2019, Mish shares his raw and insightful journey of treatment, recovery, and rebuilding life as a man post-cancer. From Johannesburg to Canada, his story spans continents and emotions — and ultimately, his experience led him to create a space for other men navigating the often-silent challenges of prostate cancer recovery.

Mish now supports men and their partners through personalised coaching, offering emotional guidance, tools for self-reinvention, and a path toward rediscovering identity and intimacy. He also speaks about the recent release of his book — including why the original title sparked controversy and was later renamed.

In This Episode, We Cover:

  • Mish’s prostate cancer diagnosis and the decisions he faced
  • The physical and psychological recovery process after treatment
  • How prostate cancer affects male identity, sexuality, and relationships
  • The importance of support networks for both men and their partners
  • His work as a men’s health coach and the creation of The Recovering Man
  • The evolving conversation around masculinity, vulnerability, and healing
  • Insights from his newly released book on finding sexual pleasure without relying on hard erections.

Key Takeaways:

Life after prostate cancer is about more than just surviving — it’s about reclaiming who you are. Mish encourages men to explore healing not only of the body but also of self-image, connection, and purpose.

Resources & Links:

  • Book a confidential consult, in clinic or on telehealth, with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic

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Connect With Us

We love hearing from real people navigating penile health—just like Mish. If you’d like to share your journey or ask a question, get in touch. Email: admin@melissahadleybarrett.com Website: www.rshealth.com.au

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https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders

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https://melissahadleybarrett.com

http://prost.com.au/

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