Tips for Divorcing a Hijackal® When Children are Involved -  Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

Tips for Divorcing a Hijackal® When Children are Involved - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

When you considering divorcing a toxic person, or when you ARE divorcing a #Hijackal, and you have children, there are many considerations that might be important in other divorces.


#Hijackals MUST win. They don't really want the children as much as they want to have control over whether or not you have them. And, of course, they want control over the children, too. People--you and the children, in particular--are what we call "supply" to Hijackals. You supply them with validation, attention, interest, and all other things each one needs to feel large and in charge.


Whether you say you're leaving, or a Hijackal is discarding you, that #Hijackal still want to control the situation in every way possible.


When you have children, there are very specific things that are different and MUST be considered.


Aside from the co-parenting, there are other details its important to stay mindful and aware of when divorcing a Hijackal and you share children. Protecting your children's emotional and mental health needs to be top of the list in this process.


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