
Narcissists are AWKWARD. ANGRY & ARGUMENTATIVE
Sure, narcissistic folks can be charming when you meet them. You just don't know what's lurking in the background, right? It can happen quickly that Hijackals® go from charming to manipulative, but it...
27 Kesä 202328min

Giving TOO MUCH? Empathy & Compassion Can TURN TOXIC!
In healthy situations, you would never think that empathy and compassion could have downsides, right? When you're with a Hijackal, a narcissistic, or other endlessly difficult person, you can find tha...
20 Kesä 202327min

Is a Narcissistic Hijackal Blowing Up Your Phone?
A BIG complaint I hear so often is that the partner of a narcissistic person--a Hijackal®--is blowing up their phone...daily. It's such a sign of things going sideways, and it slides into that territo...
13 Kesä 202332min

How Narcissists EXPLOIT Your Natural Longing for Love & Belonging
It is natural to want to be loved and love. We organically want to belong. Absolutely! It's healthy, too. However, narcissistic people and all Hijackals excel at manipulating you and your feelings for...
6 Kesä 202330min

Narcissists are Masters of Crazy-making WhatAboutism
Ever feel your head spin when you're trying to express your feelings, thoughts, wants, or needs to a Hijackal? Of course, you have. That's because they are masters of this phenomena know as WhatAboutI...
30 Touko 202329min

NARCISSISTS! Do They Hurt You on Purpose?
People ask so often: Do narcissists and other HIjackals know that they are being mean, difficult, coercive, dismissive, and more? You want to know. In this episode, I'll lay it out and explain it all,...
23 Touko 20231h 1min

Narcissists: Rigid Thinkers Who Demand to be Right
Rigid thinking and what-about-ism are seriously linked. Know someone who is rigid in their thinking? They are RIGHT and that's all there is to it? And, if you don't agree with them, you're wrong...and...
16 Touko 202343min

Why Emotional Abusers Prefer People-Pleasers Who Fawn
Maybe, you're too nice. You fawn. You'll do anything to keep the peace...or, at least, sidestep potential rage if you can. Peace at any price, you may say. Maybe, you find yourself fawning. (Hear mor...
9 Touko 202332min





















