
BONUS: Boundaries. Got any?
Boundaries are what keep us feeling safe, secure, protected, in control of our own lives. When you give up your boundaries because you are in relationship with a person who does not respect them, you ...
31 Joulu 20178min

Recognize Verbal Abuse Now
Sometimes, you get so used to being talked at, and talked to, in disrespectful, dismissive ways that you don't actually think of it as verbal abuse. Then, you tend to think that either it's just the w...
27 Joulu 201714min

BONUS: Q&A My mother is always finding fault.
A member asked about what to do because her mother was constantly finding fault with her.#Hijackal parents constantly either find fault or turn a blind eye to fault. One or the other, usually. I offer...
27 Joulu 20179min

Spirituality, Hijackals & You Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
I'm asked so many times, "Am I going against spiritual principles to keep myself safe from my abusive spouse?" So, I wanted to answer that in an episode for you, to share my thoughts on this matter.So...
27 Joulu 201710min

12 Signs You Are In A Love-Hate Relationship
Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questio...
27 Joulu 201715min

Love-Bombing - Not As Desirable As It Sounds!
LOVE-BOMBING!When a #Hijackal--a relentlessly difficult, toxic person--wants to impress you and win you over, s/he will use love-bombing.That means s/he will be everything you ever wanted and more.Pro...
27 Joulu 201713min

BONUS: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
Big question. Knowing the answer takes a whole lot of thinking…unless, of course, there is physical or sexual abuse.Then, there is only one answer: GO. Go to the police. Go to the court. Go to any len...
21 Joulu 20177min

What's up with Harvey W?
Host, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, discusses boundaries, narcissism, entitlement and sexual predators with Christine Baumgartner, owner of ThePerfectCatch.comHarvey Weinstein might have thought that power ma...
20 Joulu 201715min





















