S2 E1- What They Don't Tell You When You Leave Abuse & Why I Am Back

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️ Episode Title: We’re Back—With Hope, Healing, and a Wider Lens

Welcome to Relational Trauma SOS, a podcast for survivors of the 4 A’s—abuse, addiction, adultery, and abandonment. After a four-year pause, host Jeni Brockbank returns with a powerful and deeply personal episode.

In this relaunch, Jeni shares her lived experience of relational trauma, post-separation abuse, systemic harm, and survival—alongside the story of founding H.E.R. Wings Unfold, a nonprofit dedicated to helping women heal with dignity. She also introduces TS-12 Anon, the first-ever trauma-sensitive 12-step program for survivors of 4-A behavior.

In This Episode:

• Why the podcast disappeared and what brought it back

• How Jeni lived through all 4 A’s—abuse, addiction, adultery, abandonment

• Real-life examples of post-separation abuse and systemic failure

• The launch of H.E.R. Wings Unfold and its healing mission

• The need for trauma-sensitive recovery and the creation of TS-12 Anon

• Dreaming of a physical healing space with yoga, art therapy, and income-building workshops

• How you can support survivors and help rewrite the future of healing

Resources Mentioned:

• H.E.R. Wings Unfold Website: herwingsunfold.org

• Donate to Help Her Heal: herwingsunfold.org/donate

• TS-12 Anon FIND A MEETING

• BUY the Book TS-12 Anon

• Join Our Newsletter: herwingsunfold.org/contact

Featured Song: Learning to Fly

This original track plays at the end of the episode. This song should be available for purchase by 07/18/2025 on all major platforms. All proceeds from the song benefit H.E.R. Wings Unfold.

Connect With Us:

• Instagram: @herwingsunfold

• Instagram: @relationship_trauma_sos

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Chapters

• (00:00:02) - No More Trauma: A New Episode
• (00:01:45) - How Healing in Christ From Sexual Betrayal Has Changed My Life
• (00:15:15) - L Learning to Fly