#279 Stop Calling It a Discard, You Are Not Trash
Heal Your Heartbreak22 Heinä 2025

#279 Stop Calling It a Discard, You Are Not Trash

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into a term I’ve seen popping up everywhere lately—“discard”—especially in the context of avoidant attachment styles and breakups. I share how I started noticing this lingo in my Q&As on Instagram, did some research, and why the use of “discard” really doesn’t sit right with me. I break down why I believe using this term is harmful, how it can lower self-esteem, invalidate your relationship experience, and make moving forward so much harder. I also touch on the dangers of getting too wrapped up in therapy-speak and diagnostic labels instead of just allowing yourself to process the real sadness and pain of heartbreak. If you’ve felt “thrown away” in a blindsided or one-sided breakup, this episode is for you—I hope it helps you feel seen and reminds you not to tie your worth to someone else’s inability to commit.

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#291 Is Your Breakup Story Helping or Hurting Your Recovery?

#291 Is Your Breakup Story Helping or Hurting Your Recovery?

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#290 From Self-Sabotage to Self-Regulation: Anna Runkle’s Guide to Relationship Healing

#290 From Self-Sabotage to Self-Regulation: Anna Runkle’s Guide to Relationship Healing

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#289 Surviving the Horrors of Dating with Rory Uphold: Mindset, Shame, and Self-Love

#289 Surviving the Horrors of Dating with Rory Uphold: Mindset, Shame, and Self-Love

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#288 Healing Through Letters: A Breakup Recovery Tool

#288 Healing Through Letters: A Breakup Recovery Tool

In today’s solo episode, I’m diving into one of my all-time favorite tools for breakup healing—letter writing. I share why this practice has been so powerful for me, how I integrate it into my coachin...

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#287 When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned with Laura Behnke

#287 When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned with Laura Behnke

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#286 Navigating the Final Stretch of Breakup Recovery

#286 Navigating the Final Stretch of Breakup Recovery

In today's solo episode, I'm diving into what I call the final 10% of breakup recovery—that last stretch where you feel mostly healed, but still find yourself thinking about your ex, feeling frustrate...

9 Syys 202522min

#285 Out of the Ashes: Courtney Peppernell’s Journey Through Heartbreak and Emotional Abuse

#285 Out of the Ashes: Courtney Peppernell’s Journey Through Heartbreak and Emotional Abuse

In today’s episode, I’m joined by internationally bestselling poet and author Courtney Peppernell to talk about her deeply personal new book, Out of the Ashes. Courtney opens up about her seven-year r...

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#284 Let the Truth Set You Free: Amber Rae’s Story of Leaving to Love

#284 Let the Truth Set You Free: Amber Rae’s Story of Leaving to Love

In today's episode, I'm joined by international best-selling author Amber Rae of the book Loveable, who shares her incredible story of breaking free from a nine-year sexless marriage after realizing s...

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