Why You Say Yes When You Shouldn't — And How To Say No When It Matters Most | Dr. Sunita Sah

Why You Say Yes When You Shouldn't — And How To Say No When It Matters Most | Dr. Sunita Sah

A conversation with a Cornell professor who is attempting to rebrand the concept of defiance.

Dr. Sunita Sah started her career as a physician but then switched over to organizational psychology. At Cornell, she conducts research on influence, authority, compliance, and defiance. She is the author of Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How Dr. Sah defines defiance
  • The costs of compliance
  • The five stages of defiance
  • How to make defiance a practice
  • The upside of tension
  • The importance of knowing your values — how to articulate them, and how this relates to our biology, specifically our hormones
  • The gender components of defiance

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How to Reframe Your "Problems" as "Puzzles" | A.J. Jacobs

How to Reframe Your "Problems" as "Puzzles" | A.J. Jacobs

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How To Be Less Anxious and More Useful in a Chaotic World | Oren Jay Sofer

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New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Buddhist strategies for navigating tumult— and even becoming a node of sanit...

22 Marras 20231h 7min

Can Anxiety Be a Gift? | Dr. David Rosmarin

Can Anxiety Be a Gift? | Dr. David Rosmarin

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- This guest says you can thrive with anxiety. And the trick is learning to get...

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Good Conflict | Amanda Ripley | An Episode From "On Being"

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Become an Active Operator of Your Nervous System | Deb Dana

Become an Active Operator of Your Nervous System | Deb Dana

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- Practical tools for regulating your nervous system in stressful times. Deb ...

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A Radical Strategy for Dealing With Difficult People | Father Gregory Boyle

A Radical Strategy for Dealing With Difficult People | Father Gregory Boyle

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- We deal with difficult people over holiday meals, at work, and online. This g...

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Deep, Provocative Success Strategies From the "Yoda of Silicon Valley" | Jerry Colonna

Deep, Provocative Success Strategies From the "Yoda of Silicon Valley" | Jerry Colonna

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. --- How getting your sh*t together can make you a better leader in your own pers...

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