#446 Beyond the (Religious) Shame and How to Recreate Your Sex Life

Sex Educator and dear friend Kristen returns to answer your sex questions about cum and oral fetishes, menstrual cups, gender-bending and lingerie fetishes, demi-sexuality, virginity, and how to be a confident lover. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Sign up for the newsletter at marginswine.com to be the first to receive news about new releases. Plus use code SHAMELESSSEX10 for 10% off 3+ bottles, or SHAMELESSSEX15 for 6+ bottles

21 Tammi 20201h 25min

How does the body internalize sexual trauma and how can we heal it through pleasure? How does this apply sexual pain? And what about kink as a means for working with trauma?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19.  About our guest: Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru. She is the author of The Conscious Sexual Self Workbook and writes the pleasure activism blog, Transformational Pleasure. Founder & Director of Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapy Training, she promotes inclusive sexual health around the world. To learn more visit www.mf-therapy.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get one week of "the Netflix of porn" with code SHAMELESS at adulttime.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want clinically proven science-backed multi-vitamins made from the best ingredients? Go to ritual.com/SHAMELESSSEX and get 10% off during your first 3 months

14 Tammi 20201h 17min

In this episode we talk all about soft cocks, dry pussies, and our stance on hardness and wetness.  We also answer a sex question about erotic text messaging and dirty talk.  Want to fast forward to the interview? Skip to minute 22.  About our guests: Nicoletta is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sexologist and Simone is an actor-turned-law-student who really likes to talk about sex stuff. Together, they chat with folks from across sexuality, kink, and professional spectrums about desire, pleasure, shame, stigma and (of course) bodily functions on the Sluts and Scholars Podcast. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Available on just about all of the podcast apps  Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Meditators have better sex! Start meditating with the Calm app + get 40% off when you visit calm.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

7 Tammi 20201h 1min

Tune in as we learn all about Knot Love with Edward Willey. Knot Love isn’t just about rope tying techniques. It’s about learning how to stay deeply connected to your partner, read their desires and needs, and build a scene together that cultivates trust, passion, and connection. It’s also about learning how to cultivate and embody relaxation, confidence, and awareness inside yourself. We also answer a sex question about sex and penis size after bladder surgery. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 27. About our guest: Edward Willey has been teaching erotic rope play since 2014 and has loved knots since he was a Boy Scout. He combines his passion for rope with his long-time practice of Aikido and Sheng Zhen. His experience with these two arts of unconditional love provides a foundation for teaching how to develop open-hearted connection and awareness along with technical rope tying skills. He believes that in addition to the commonly used Japanese terms shibari (“to tie”) & kinbaku (“to bind tightly”), the word musubi is important in rope play. Musubi means to unite or bind together. Learning to connect with rope in this way can bring a new level of joy, intimacy, and understanding to your relationship by tying your hearts together with love. He is available for private coaching sessions to cultivate love and intimacy using rope at knot-love.com.  Sign up for his mailing list for a free 18-minute video showcasing his unique approach: https://mailchi.mp/fd2b6b5f018d/whyknotlove. Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

31 Joulu 20191h 17min

What is like being a Professional Dominatrix? What is Financial Domination, and why might someone enjoy it? How does this compare to being a Lifestyle Dom?  We also answer a sex question: How do I suggest we start start using condoms when we've already had unprotected sex? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 30.  About our guest: MISTRESS MARLEY is a Pro Domme, a Sex Educator and an Adult Event Organizer. Hailing from the South, she made her way to New York City where she began to dabble in the BDSM industry. With an undergraduate and graduate degree in Human Sciences, she naturally loves to dive into the mind, so why not mix that with kink? When she’s not dominating loyal servants, she spends her time educating women on how to be the domme they've always wanted to be through her organization "Black Domme Sorority". To learn more visit thechocolatedomme.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

24 Joulu 20191h 3min

The meat of this episode is about how shy men can learn to flirt, attract and date women. It's a bit different for us as we aren't fans of big generalizations or hetero-normative language, but we decided to switch it up as our guest truly does have some great tips to offer.  The intro of this episode is a long one as we talk about relationships as well as the exciting (and sometimes terrifying) process of falling in love. We also answer a sex question: Is deleting cheating?  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 33.  About our guest: Tripp Kramer is an international dating coach for men. He created his "TED system" to help shy men confidently attract the women they desire. In his earlier years he was a shy guy who figured out through trial and error how to get better and meeting, dating and finding the right type of woman for you. He currently has a popular podcast on iTunes called "How To Talk To Girls" and has a book called Magnetic which teaches all his secrets on dating and attraction. To learn more visit https://trippadvice.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless

17 Joulu 20191h 27min

In this episode we sit down with fellow podcasters and Pleasure Podcast Network friends Cam and Karen Lee of the Sex talk With My Mom podcast. We chat all about what it means to be a cougar, how to talk to your kids AND parents about sex, and why you should date a mama’s boy, We also answer a sex question: I get turned on knowing my wife thinks I’m small down there. Is this normal? About our guests: Sex Talk With My Mom offers sex and relationship advice while exploring the dynamic between a sexually-liberated, cougar mom and her comedian son. They feature guests ranging from legendary porn star Nina Hartley to their previous sexual partners. They have "the talk" every Monday and Thursday to make you laugh and open the conversation around sex. Esquire ranked them at the top of their list of "Best Sex Podcasts" and they have been featured on Megyn Kelly TODAY and Comedy Central's Tosh.O. To learn more visit sextalkwithmymom.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get $20 your first coaching session with code SHAMELESSSEX at nicoleduke.com

10 Joulu 201949min

In this episode we share our top 10 favorite sex toys for this holiday season.  Check out the Gigi 2, the Ina Wave, and the Luna balls at lelo.com and use code SHAMELESS for 20% off* Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com

2 Joulu 201942min