44) My birth story with Toni and her NICU baby
Dam Parenting20 Touko 2024

44) My birth story with Toni and her NICU baby

Trigger Warning

We all have a vision of the "perfect birth," but the reality often looks different. The truth is, what matters most is that our babies are healthy, and we’re there to support them through their journey—no matter how unexpected it might be.

If you've experienced a NICU birth, or you’re currently navigating the emotional challenges of having a baby in the NICU, Toni’s story will give you a sense of comfort and solidarity. For those who are supporting someone going through this experience, Toni’s story is a powerful reminder of the strength and resilience that come with these journeys.


In today’s episode, Toni, a well-known doula in Amsterdam, shares her personal birth story. She talks openly about the challenges of giving birth prematurely, the emotional rollercoaster of having a baby in the NICU, and how she and her partner navigated those difficult moments. Toni's daughter, a true fighter, spent time in the NICU, and Toni shares how they coped with this reality while learning to support each other through the experience.

We are incredibly grateful to Toni for sharing her story, which we know will resonate with many listeners who may be going through something similar. If you, or someone you know, has had a NICU experience, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone. There are others who have walked this difficult path, and we can lean on each other for support.

Key Takeaways:

  • The emotional and physical challenges of a premature birth.

  • How parents cope when their newborn is in the NICU.

  • Toni’s personal experience with navigating the NICU journey and finding resilience.

  • A reminder that support and shared experiences help us heal together.


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