Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Learn how to break destructive protest behavior cycles before they destroy your marriage! In Part 2 of the protest behaviors series, marriage therapy expert Christa Hardin explores why these patterns escalate from mild criticism or withdrawal to explosive fights and emotional shutdown. Discover childhood origins of each Enneagram type's specific protest strategies, from Type 8s who learned vulnerability was dangerous to Type 5s who learned people drain them. Learn general and type-specific ways to create emotional safety that prevents protesting, how to respond during protest episodes to de-escalate rather than inflame, and repair strategies that actually heal after damage occurs. Includes the escalation pattern most couples miss and practical tools for building marriages where direct communication feels safer than protesting. Watch on YouTube! Get healthy together as a couple this Fall! Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Listen to Christa on The Allender Center Podcast here! Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Rewilding Relationships w/Award-Winning Author Lore Ferguson Wilbert, 9w8

Rewilding Relationships w/Award-Winning Author Lore Ferguson Wilbert, 9w8

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Navigating The Three Enneagram Instincts (Sp, Sx, So) This Holiday: An E + M Mini-Episode

Navigating The Three Enneagram Instincts (Sp, Sx, So) This Holiday: An E + M Mini-Episode

The busy times over the holidays can truly take a person -- and a marriage -- down to an unhealthy level if they're not intentionally stepping into life with faithful steps. Don't miss this refreshing...

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Holding to a Posture of Hope Even After Everything This Advent w/Stephanie Duncan Smith, 4

Holding to a Posture of Hope Even After Everything This Advent w/Stephanie Duncan Smith, 4

Advent begins in the dark, and at this weary time of year, we truly need reminders of what we can hope for and how we can remain with one another, despite the hardest hurts that make us want to draw a...

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What to Do When There's a Desire Mismatch in Your Marriage

What to Do When There's a Desire Mismatch in Your Marriage

Often couples have a mismatch in their sexual desire, and sometimes that desire is stronger in the females, not just the males, contrary to popular belief, and the reasons are complex, no matter the c...

27 Marras 202414min

Personality and Wholeness: 9 Patterns of Developmental Pathways w/Dr. Dan Siegel, MD

Personality and Wholeness: 9 Patterns of Developmental Pathways w/Dr. Dan Siegel, MD

Relational triggers only get worse when we're not aware of our focus of attention and blind spots. Today we're grateful to have world-renowned psychiatrist Dr. Dan Siegel, MD, (Harvard Medical School,...

25 Marras 202446min

How Each Type Can Better Communicate with Their Partner: An E + M Mini

How Each Type Can Better Communicate with Their Partner: An E + M Mini

Communication between partners can get very sticky around the holidays so today we’re taking some time to allow you a chance to refresh and review the best ways to communicate as partners of each type...

20 Marras 202414min

Releasing Your Personality Shadows w/Master Enneagram Teacher Leslie Hershberger, Type 7

Releasing Your Personality Shadows w/Master Enneagram Teacher Leslie Hershberger, Type 7

We see others' shadows readily, but seeing and releasing our own shadows is where the real change begins, even as we learn to move beyond our protective but maladaptive shadow responses. Today we talk...

18 Marras 20241h 22min

Five Joyful Habits to Set For Your Holiday: An E + M Mini-Episode

Five Joyful Habits to Set For Your Holiday: An E + M Mini-Episode

With the holidays around the corner, it’s time to get refreshed and to get into better habit-building for you and your marriage and family. Today Christa takes you through five areas for better habit-...

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