Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Learn how to break destructive protest behavior cycles before they destroy your marriage! In Part 2 of the protest behaviors series, marriage therapy expert Christa Hardin explores why these patterns escalate from mild criticism or withdrawal to explosive fights and emotional shutdown. Discover childhood origins of each Enneagram type's specific protest strategies, from Type 8s who learned vulnerability was dangerous to Type 5s who learned people drain them. Learn general and type-specific ways to create emotional safety that prevents protesting, how to respond during protest episodes to de-escalate rather than inflame, and repair strategies that actually heal after damage occurs. Includes the escalation pattern most couples miss and practical tools for building marriages where direct communication feels safer than protesting. Watch on YouTube! Get healthy together as a couple this Fall! Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Listen to Christa on The Allender Center Podcast here! Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The Enneagram for Teens w/Author Ainsley Britain, Type 2 (and Hannah Hardin, Type 4)

The Enneagram for Teens w/Author Ainsley Britain, Type 2 (and Hannah Hardin, Type 4)

Modern-day kids have so much to contend with between technology, AI, and also just learning who they’re becoming as they rapidly change. As a parent, you want to give them great tools to learn about w...

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Three Tips to Bring Peace to Your Week: An E + M Mini Episode

Three Tips to Bring Peace to Your Week: An E + M Mini Episode

Maintaining peace is hard on a week when the world feels a bit less stable during election week. Here are three tips for maintaining peace as you learn to focus on the here and on what you can do to t...

6 Marras 202411min

Going Deeper w/Conversations in Your Marriage w/Marriage365 Casey and Meygan Caston, Types 7 and 8

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When we stop talking, we stop connecting, and this is a week in the world when we realize that kind and deep conversations are more essential than ever. Yet when we’re exhausted and weary of the dista...

4 Marras 202441min

Dealing with the Mental Load in Your Relationship: An E + M Mini- Episode

Dealing with the Mental Load in Your Relationship: An E + M Mini- Episode

The term mental load is a hot-button issue right now in relationships, and for good reason. Many individuals, often women, but sometimes men too, find themselves in a never-ending but invisible stage-...

30 Loka 202422min

Healing from the Inside with Marriage Therapist Blake Roberts, MMFT, Type 9

Healing from the Inside with Marriage Therapist Blake Roberts, MMFT, Type 9

Many times we want to work everything out relationally with our partner, but often the work must start within by finding your beliefs, emotions, and story. Today we have the rich expertise of husband,...

28 Loka 202454min

Healing Misalignment As a Couple: An E + M Mini-Episode

Healing Misalignment As a Couple: An E + M Mini-Episode

When you're feeling misaligned as a couple, relationship desire is lower and you feel so misunderstood. Today not only do you get to walk through the various ways couples can become misaligned, but mo...

23 Loka 202420min

Why Healthy Authenticity is Everything in a Marriage (And How to Bring It!)

Why Healthy Authenticity is Everything in a Marriage (And How to Bring It!)

Authenticity is deeply important for a thriving marriage, yet authenticity without intentional growth can bring out the very worst of humanity. Listen to this foundational E + M episode to learn sever...

21 Loka 202432min

Bonus Episode: How to Recover Lost Desire in Marriage

Bonus Episode: How to Recover Lost Desire in Marriage

In our series, we’ve been connecting on how desire is built, but in this deeper dive episode, we talk about what prevents desire and how it is lost and recovered. We talk about the shadows we carry th...

16 Loka 202432min

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