S14 Ep. 5: He Won't Experiment, Her Orgasm Leaves Me Out, and The Sex is Back—But Is It Here to Stay?

S14 Ep. 5: He Won't Experiment, Her Orgasm Leaves Me Out, and The Sex is Back—But Is It Here to Stay?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) My marriage has been sexless for five years—literally, no sex at all. I tried everything to make my wife see how important sex is, but she refused to even talk about it. We’re young—in our early 40s! It’s strained our marriage beyond repair; so, I asked her for a divorce. Instantly, everything changed. She initiated sex the night I told her, and we’ve had sex twice a day since. It’s good, enthusiastic sex and she appears to be up for anything. I don’t understand what this means and am too scared to ask. The million-dollar question is: will this last? Are our problems finally solved?


2) I’ve been with my partner for five years and it’s the best sex I’ve had with anyone. But now, it feels repetitive and boring. I’m keen to push boundaries, like I did with my previous boyfriend, but he’s not willing to step outside his comfort zone. I suggested we find a partner for each other and watch, or go to sex club and just watch others. He says it’s not in his character to do those things. He’s not even interested in watching porn—I watch it by myself. What now?

3) My wife can only orgasm while lying on her stomach with her legs closed and using a vibrator. We’ve talked about it and tried many other techniques, but this seems to be the only way that works for her. Should I continue to encourage her to experiment and try new techniques? How can we avoid things becoming boring for both of us, especially me?


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