Ep 49 - Complicated Pleasures: Can Fetish, Kink, and Romance Coexist? with Miz Darling

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What makes something a kink, and what makes it a fetish? And can you find your life partner when you either?

In this episode, I sit down in person with content creator and professional dom, Miz Darling to explore the deep, messy, and meaningful world of fetish. From spanking and feet, to nylons and cuckolding, we unpack what makes a fetish different from a kink, how these desires form, and how they show up in long-term love and relationships. We also talk about the book we’re co-writing, Complicated Pleasures, and why it was important to tell real stories of fetishists navigating relationships, intimacy, and identity.

This episode isn’t just about what turns people on, it’s about how to stay connected when your desires don’t fit the script. Tune in to learn why fetish is really about power, communication, and finding romance in the most unexpected places.

Episode Highlights:

(0:00) Exploring Common Fetishes

(12:29) Introducing the Book Project: Complicated Pleasures

(14:19) The Stigma Around Fetishes

(15:08) Exploring Relationship Dynamics

(19:51) Personal Experiences with Fetishes

(22:53) Embracing Your Sexuality

(27:00) How to Get Involved

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