How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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SWE: Scary in the Bedroom

SWE: Scary in the Bedroom

In honor of Halloween, Emily talks about scary bedroom encounters, from a one minute man to anal sex. Also, what to do when your hook-up leaves underwear behind, sex with your ex, and avoiding STI's during a threesome. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

29 Loka 20121h 2min

SWE: The Bush

SWE: The Bush

In this throwback episode Emily talks about bushes, from George W. Bush to the 70’s hair down-there trend. She also discusses breast orgasms, bondage, and Black Swan girl-on-girl action. Also, just in time for Halloween, an Oregon couple gives out some sexual trick or treats--- “three musketeers or a condom anyone?” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Loka 201251min

SWE: First Base

SWE: First Base

Emily and Menace talking about going to first base-- tips from first dates and first kisses. Emily also answers listeners emails about swinging, gym fantasizing, and party etiquette. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

19 Loka 20121h 2min

SWE: Two Quickies & an Orgasm

SWE: Two Quickies & an Orgasm

In these two quickie episodes, Emily tells you how to get in on whether you're naked at the Harbin Hotsprings or on a cruise. She then describes how to pleasure women in bed, from foreplay to roleplay, with a little oral sex in between. The show comes to a strange end with Emily involved in a somewhat disturbing Fast food fantasy, dressed up as the Hamburgeler. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Loka 201234min

SWE: Sex Drive

SWE: Sex Drive

Emily's back in sex school getting her doctorate, learning about gigantic sex machines and how the penis evolved. After school gets out, Emily goes on the Jeff Probst show to give sex advice and answer some hard questions from the audience. One lady wants to know what do you do when your guy won't go down on you. Several husbands want to know how to get their wives to have sex with them. If your not getting any with your significant other, it might be time to play Emily's Sex Drive, her new iPhone application for couples. Emily will send you an envelope everyday with a sexual assignment (she's not the only one getting schooled in sex). Emily and Menace take the Sex Drive pledge and pretend to fulfill their sexual tasks, from going to a sex shop to dirty talk. Emily gives advice for how to mixup your sex life whether you like good ol' fashion vanilla sex or something a bit spicier. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Loka 201249min

SWE: Liberate your Lust

SWE: Liberate your Lust

Emily challenges you to go big or go home, and fantacize! From dirty talk to transcending the boundaries of your sex life, you need to liberate your lust. Emily's cohost Menace shares some intimate memories, prompting a discussion about men's fantasies. Emily also has a few dating tips for listeners who find themselves on the deep end of dating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11 Loka 201246min

SWE: The Breasts

SWE: The Breasts

On the “breast show” in support of National Breast Cancer month of October, Emily and Menace discuss ways that both women and men should not neglect the breasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Loka 20121h 2min

SWE: Married Sex, Hot or Not?

SWE: Married Sex, Hot or Not?

Today's throwback episodes are all about YOU! We focus on listener emails that highlight problems people have with everything from stale sex and swinging to sexualizing strangers. Menace and Emily delve into the nitty gritty of monogamy, and rumors about San Francisco women being gold diggers. Menace's views on this matter may shock you. Or not, if you've listened to him for more than 5 minutes.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Loka 201237min

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