How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

How Childhood Trauma Shows Up in Your Sex Life

EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Violet Benson. Violet opens up about her intentional decision to step back from penetrative sex while working through attachment patterns that clouded her judgment in relationships. How do you know when sex is creating unhealthy emotional attachment versus genuine connection? Violet shares her realization that sleeping with someone too quickly led her to ignore red flags and chase unavailable partners who mirrored her childhood feelings of being "not enough." The conversation dives into Violet's egg freezing experience, including the intense hormonal and emotional effects that doctors failed to prepare her for. Violet takes Emily's Sex IQ quiz from the book Smart Sex, reflecting on how much her relationship with her body and pleasure has evolved. They tackle a listener question about pursuing someone with major red flags just for physical chemistry, with both hosts emphasizing the importance of honest self-reflection over justification. The episode explores embracing "clinginess" in dating, why vulnerability beats playing games, and how foreplay truly starts outside the bedroom. Throughout, Emily and Violet reinforce that understanding your patterns is the first step to breaking cycles that don't serve you. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Violet's dating hiatus 5:42 - Turning fears into boundaries 8:37 - Understanding attachment styles and childhood trauma in relationships 11:43 - Egg freezing experience 16:17 - Managing mental health during hormonal changes 21:00 - Sex IQ Quiz 26:31 - Listener question: Detaching emotions from physical intimacy 30:30 - Why being vulnerable beats playing games 35:41 - Why people are having less sex and connection 38:15 - Top 3 tips for authentic dating and better relationships 40:42 - Rapid-fire questions: Turn-ons, turn-offs, and relationship advice

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Slump Buster

Slump Buster

Why women love the bad boy, why Menace isn't having sex, serial monogamy, how to talk dirty, making noise during sex, losing your virginity at 30, why you might need a "slump-buster," how to be a better kisser, what being on break really means to your relationship, how long foreplay should last, how to undress your partner, and how important is an emotional connection during foreplay? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Loka 201156min

Cougar Catching

Cougar Catching

Emily's obsession with the Fyre Tv porn box, what should Emily name her new dog?, what's got Emily smiling so big, women who advertise their break-ups online, Emily's almost nip-slip, a celeb mom catches crabs, why to stay friends with your exes, a "Cross-Legged Strike," do men like the reverse cowgirl position?, how long should sex should last?, how to make a woman feel special, tips for approaching older women, dominating your partner in bed, the right way to turn a date down, the most sensitive part of the penis and taking advantage of foreskin. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Loka 20111h 1min

Deep Orgasm

Deep Orgasm

Emily talks with guest Dr. Jallen Rix about stimulating the prostate. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 Loka 20119min

Dirty Talk

Dirty Talk

Free Friday: Emily is going to New York City and gives Menace his "special" birthday gift, does "sexting" qualify as cheating? Does penis size matter? Small town women vs. big city women and who won the Treasure Island Music Festival raffle for Jimmyjane products and Emily's book Hot Sex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Loka 201147min

Episode 318 - Carnal Confessions

Episode 318 - Carnal Confessions

Emily reads carnal confessions from the SWE Treasure Island Music Festival Booth. Apparently, most people like it in the butt. Emily and Menace discuss if it’s ever okay to  use a coupon on a first date. Also, Social networking sites that can help get you laid, dating younger men, why you should say yes to every invitation, Sesame Street gets sexy, and having sex while skydiving? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Loka 201154min

Monday Manscaping

Monday Manscaping

Emily talks with guest Anthony Sosnick, founder of Anthony Logistics for Men, about grooming essentials and practices, the Sex with Emily "Carnal Confessions" booth at Treasure Island Music Festival, extreme sex confessions, How do you tell your partner to groom "down there,"? Menace explains why he strongly dislikes drunk white girls and the best products to manscape your body. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Loka 201150min

Sex Without Penetration

Sex Without Penetration

Emily attends a class on non-monogamy, how to overcome jealousy, Emily plays with her sex school friends, Google calendars to schedule sex with multiple people, is cheating genetic?, having bad gaydar, the morning after pill and the royal wedding, what's the best kind of orgasm, how to get through a break-up, how to start a new relationship, masturbating in front of your partner, the vagus nerve that makes you orgasm, nude beaches, smoking and sexual performance, Menace's date ideas, how to have a successful long distance relationship, phone sex and sex simulation: how to have sex without penetration. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 Loka 20111h

Back Door Man

Back Door Man

What's sexy about having sex in nature?, Menace's worst phone sex fear, when men get bored with sex, the hottest and cheapest date idea for the weekend, how can you have sex at 85mph?, did Emily helped SF to become the most promiscuous city?, what happened with Menace's previous engagement?, Emily loves her new pet name, "Princess Emily," ways to work around foot fetishes, being in a relationship without the commitment, how to suggest anal play to your partner, the essential tool to use every time for backdoor sex, the number one rule to make it pleasurable and how to get the most out of it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11 Loka 201159min

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