The Science Behind Your Need to Please

The Science Behind Your Need to Please

If you've ever been called a "people pleaser" or found yourself constantly putting others' needs before your own, what you're experiencing may actually be a trauma response called fawning. In the new book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back, clinical psychologist Dr. Ingrid Clayton explains this often overlooked alternative to fight-flight-freeze, an effort to appease threats by trying to make oneself more appealing. Whether in relationships, work, or family dynamics, understanding this pattern can help you reclaim your voice and authentic self. 📱 Follow The Next Big Idea Daily on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen 📩 Want more bite-sized insights from the best new nonfiction delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our Book of the Day newsletter

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S22 E1: A Little Adventure Can Go a Long Way (Shelby Stanger)

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S21 E5: We Mistake Information for Intimacy (Marcus Collins)

S21 E5: We Mistake Information for Intimacy (Marcus Collins)

Data, demographics — these things only take you so far. That's the final lesson Marcus Collins has to share with us. If you really want to get to know someone, he says, you've got to look past what th...

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S21 E4: The World Is Culturally Constructed (Marcus Collins)

S21 E4: The World Is Culturally Constructed (Marcus Collins)

"Meaning," says Marcus Collins ("For the Culture") in today's episode, "is culturally mediated based on how we see the world. Understanding how people make meaning will increase the likelihood of unde...

22 Kesä 202310min

S21 E3: Our Approach to Market Segmentation Needs an Upgrade (Marcus Collins)

S21 E3: Our Approach to Market Segmentation Needs an Upgrade (Marcus Collins)

Today, Marcus Collins ("For the Culture") says that if you want to understand someone, you can learn much more from their tribal communities than their demographics.

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S21 E2: The Future of Brands Will Be Communal (Marcus Collins)

S21 E2: The Future of Brands Will Be Communal (Marcus Collins)

Welcome back to our week-long masterclass with marketing magician Marcus Collins. He ran digital strategy for Beyoncé; teaches at the Ross School of Business, University of Michigan; serves as chief s...

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S21 E1: There's No Greater Force Than Culture (Marcus Collins)

S21 E1: There's No Greater Force Than Culture (Marcus Collins)

This week: Marcus Collins, who teaches marketing at the University of Michigan's business school and serves as the chief strategy officer at Wieden+Kennedy, shares five key insights from his book "For...

19 Kesä 202315min

S20 E5: Diversify Your Identity Beyond Work (Simone Stolzoff)

S20 E5: Diversify Your Identity Beyond Work (Simone Stolzoff)

When we work all the time, it doesn’t just take our best hours; it often takes our best energy, too. In his final lesson, Simone Stolzoff (”The Good Enough Job”) implores us to step away from work and...

16 Kesä 202315min

S20 E4: Define What Good Enough Means to You (Simone Stolzoff)

S20 E4: Define What Good Enough Means to You (Simone Stolzoff)

Your job isn't your soulmate. If it's good enough, then maybe that's good enough.

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